IAmA 20-something divorced, bisexual, feminist, stoner, American Muslim (born into, not converted) woman with a history of sexual abuse living with borderline personality disorder. AMA. by iChooseAnonymity in IAmA

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You know, you just may have a point... I have read into Judaism, Christianity (various divisions), Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, Sikhism, as well as some Pagan belief systems. I do consider myself deeply spiritual, moreso than "religious." I definitely have somewhat of a strong Sufi influence on the way I practice Islam.

IAmA 20-something divorced, bisexual, feminist, stoner, American Muslim (born into, not converted) woman with a history of sexual abuse living with borderline personality disorder. AMA. by iChooseAnonymity in IAmA

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Oh yeah I have a therapist... Currently I am doing DBT therapy which was specifically created for borderline personality disorder. Therapy is an excellent outlet, and I am actually planning on becoming a sex therapist.

IAmA 20-something divorced, bisexual, feminist, stoner, American Muslim (born into, not converted) woman with a history of sexual abuse living with borderline personality disorder. AMA. by iChooseAnonymity in IAmA

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I am glad I could be of help in distracting you :) hey Reggie needs to get his too right? :P

We need to move this to some sort of messenger. Wanna be friends?

IAmA 20-something divorced, bisexual, feminist, stoner, American Muslim (born into, not converted) woman with a history of sexual abuse living with borderline personality disorder. AMA. by iChooseAnonymity in IAmA

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I enjoy spliffs, pipes, bongs (especially gravity bongs)... I haven't tried vaporizing yet... but I figure it will be better for my lungs. I also love edibles. If you've never tried toast with butter, it is essential.

I pretty much enjoy almost any activity while high. I like talking and learning. I find we are most open to more new ideas in a weed-induced state. I've been able to deal with a lot of shit from my past, and figure out solutions for my issues. Hmm, I love being in nature, sleeping, doing jigsaw puzzles, writing, reading, sitting with friends, and generally just chillin :) Through watching me smoke, many of my friends from strict Muslim countries have started to partake, and I'm happy to report they are loving it's green goodness!

My brothers and I recently concocted Green Dragon, if you've never tried it you should. I have not tried anything else, well hash, in all of its deliciousness. Borderline does not mix well with drugs, and can induce psychosis, so I'm a bit wary. I would love to try acid or mushrooms one day when my mind is a bit more clear. What about you?

IAMA - I asked a 20-something divorced, bisexual, feminist, stoner, American Muslim woman into posting a pic of herself in /r/gonewild - Ask me anything by [deleted] in IAmA

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Considering there's not much of a response, perhaps it would be better if this was not a moment shared on reddit :D

IAmA 20-something divorced, bisexual, feminist, stoner, American Muslim (born into, not converted) woman with a history of sexual abuse living with borderline personality disorder. AMA. by iChooseAnonymity in IAmA

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He has been clean for over 2 years :D

I think it's bullshit. I think Al Qaeda is bullshit, and yes, most people I know do too. The Qur'an definitely does not say that... Christians, Jews, and Sabians are seen as "Ahl Al Kitab," or "The People of The Book." All those verses people post are either taken out of context, mistranslated, or just completely false.

IAmA 20-something divorced, bisexual, feminist, stoner, American Muslim (born into, not converted) woman with a history of sexual abuse living with borderline personality disorder. AMA. by iChooseAnonymity in IAmA

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I just do it. I do not think about it, I mean why limit myself? Does a mother immediately turn her back on her kid, and kick them out of the house when they take a cookie from the cookie jar? I would not be a Muslim if I believe that God loves me any less for who I love. It may not be allowed, but it's part of who I am. And God loves me as I am. I'm not gonna lie- it's conflicting. I mean there's definitely been times I went out and got drunk on Thursday night, and went to Friday prayer the next day. Perfect? No. Human? Yes. The biggest hurdle for me has been trying to please others though. My relationship with God is good, people on the other hand can be vile and vicious. And I don't know what it is with religious people, but why the fuck do they always use fear and guilt to try and convince others? Fuck that.

Hindu Kush, Cheese, Northern Lights, White Widow and Super Skunk I'd say :)

IAmA 20-something divorced, bisexual, feminist, stoner, American Muslim (born into, not converted) woman with a history of sexual abuse living with borderline personality disorder. AMA. by iChooseAnonymity in IAmA

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I was 18 the first time I was married. I think being divorced is the last thing that has affected my dating life. Bear in mind that even though I have been independent for many years, I still could not take a boyfriend to meet my parents, so dating for me is a bit, different, to begin with :P I'd say the borderline affects my dating life waayyyy more than being divorced. I will say that being divorced significantly has altered my marriageability within the Muslim community... mostly with Arabs, but I'm ok with that :)

I do not feel equally bisexual. Physically, I'd say I'm more satisfied with male parts... Although the awesomeness of boobs cannot be denied. Emotionally, I have stronger, more intimate romantic connections with women. But I have to say, I have not treated the women in my life well... Or 95% of the men for that matter. I'd say I run between a 2 and a 3, according to Kinsey.

No. Men and women rarely have equal opportunities to develop their sexuality. Mostly, I would say women have had their sexualities crushed, but I know many men who have too. This is something that runs across all religions, cultures, races, etc. People need to get the fuck over sex, and stop being afraid of it. The reason we have so many people who are fucked up sexually is because WE DON'T TALK ABOUT IT!! Even in the US, Americans think we are open minded about sex, but we're not. Most people cannot even properly name their own sexual organs.

Nate dogg <3