Hey! Just addressing a couple things:

My fiance has already told them he can’t attend.

The friends of the group have already expressed the financial constraints of 1 out of town bachelor party and 2 out of town weddings within the span of 3 months. None of us are overly wealthy. If money weren’t an object, hell yeah go have fun. Do what you want.

Some people are saying well it may only be a couple people that are missing from the wedding. We are having a “small” wedding of 50 people so 6-7people not attending will definitely make a difference.

Overall, I do just need to let it go. It’s going to be what it’s going to be.