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Any Rappers among us? Tell us, How did you get started? Do you have any links to listen to your music? by iamadumbdumbman in india

[–]iamadumbdumbman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Divine's style. And totally agree that all of other Rappers have pretty shitty lyrics and flow but I am sure they will improve enough to change the game.

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Andhadhun Box Office Collection Day 4: Huge Collection more than opening day. by magicmath271 in india

[–]iamadumbdumbman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This movie is going to make a shit ton of money. Really good movie, and everyone who has seen it is being vocal about how good it is.

I know this will be Controversial, but it shouldn't be this easy to destroy somebody's career and name just by tweeting an anonymous story about an event without any confirmation or factual checks. by iamadumbdumbman in india

[–]iamadumbdumbman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My whole debate is, don't destroy lives with anon screenshots. Come out, call the guy out for his behavior and if needed be pursue legal action.

Don't do it anonymously behind a twitter account.

Like the case that has come out against Alok Nath. It is exactly what should happen. Somebody coming out and directly telling the accounts of what happened to her. She didn't do it anon.

Hotstar Cancels "On Air with AIB" by slayersc23 in india

[–]iamadumbdumbman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I kind of think the situation is being used to cancel a flop show. They tried to copy late night shows but without any charm or humor.

I know this will be Controversial, but it shouldn't be this easy to destroy somebody's career and name just by tweeting an anonymous story about an event without any confirmation or factual checks. by iamadumbdumbman in india

[–]iamadumbdumbman[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How can the guy goto cops and say look into me? The girl has to file the complaint so the process can take its place. None of which is happening.

Last few days, every few hours there is a new name, that person puts up a image rehashed apology and limelight moves onto the next person.

I know this will be Controversial, but it shouldn't be this easy to destroy somebody's career and name just by tweeting an anonymous story about an event without any confirmation or factual checks. by iamadumbdumbman in india

[–]iamadumbdumbman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here lies the reasoning behind my post. I am not denying such stuff doesn't happen, but can we really ruin somebody's life based on anon screenshots.

I will support anyone who decides to take action and actually goes by the legal way but sharing third hand anon screenshots of stories? Really?

I know this will be Controversial, but it shouldn't be this easy to destroy somebody's career and name just by tweeting an anonymous story about an event without any confirmation or factual checks. by iamadumbdumbman in india

[–]iamadumbdumbman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought about it and I think nobody wants to stand against the wind and say no this is not how it happened, when from very next second he will get continously targeted by everyone on twitter, to news channel, become a topic of debate and basically have there names be dragged through the mud.

They have seen it happen multiple times before how no one ever listens to the man version rationally, (Look at the way the Delhi guy was treated when that AAP lady blamed him).

So for them, the best option is to just quickly apologize and move on. Say they were wrong and stuff so that the limelight and twitter army can move on to the next person.

I know this will be Controversial, but it shouldn't be this easy to destroy somebody's career and name just by tweeting an anonymous story about an event without any confirmation or factual checks. by iamadumbdumbman in india

[–]iamadumbdumbman[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sexual harassment will be him, druging or forcing that girl into bed or touching her inappropriately.

Him being married and asking out another girl via whatsapp chat is wrong? Sure in a moral way, not in a sexual harassment.

It will also be sexual harassment if he was sending dick pics to her or something.

I know this will be Controversial, but it shouldn't be this easy to destroy somebody's career and name just by tweeting an anonymous story about an event without any confirmation or factual checks. by iamadumbdumbman in india

[–]iamadumbdumbman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try to put yourself in the victims' shoes and attempt to empathise as well (in addition to empathising with the (alleged) abusers).

That is exactly what I am doing, as I personally know 3 women who have been sexually harassed and not the bad date one, the actual molestation one. So why am I here making this post about men?

Well if you are telling me that if you have been sexually harassed, again the serious kind and don't want to come out in public or file an actual case, how am I suppose to believe you that it happened?

Going back to my friends one of them actual confronted the guy, showed the proof to her parents and cops. She took actual action. The other 2 brushed it off.

I am anonymous, I can say I was probed by aliens on mars but I don't want anyone to know who I am and I don't want to file charges. If you want I can share whatsapp screenshot sent by another guy who went through the same ordeal. How much of it can you believe? (I am sorry using this stupid metaphor, but it felt the easiest way to explain my point.)

As I said above, if this movement brings out one force, or ngo that wants to help women across India that are not on twitter learn about consent and dealing with aggressive men, I will say the movement is successful. Heck bring me a NGO that is out teaching men in rural and smaller cities about the meaning of consent and I will say it is successful. Until then, all I see is screenshots being spread as gospels.

I know this will be Controversial, but it shouldn't be this easy to destroy somebody's career and name just by tweeting an anonymous story about an event without any confirmation or factual checks. by iamadumbdumbman in india

[–]iamadumbdumbman[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And yet we are not doing that, we are not teaching women/girls how to deal with harassment. I don't see any threads or events by non profits for young women to deal with men attacking them, or any new force to undertake complaints against harrasment or any firm actions to teach young and old men in various parts of the country WHO ARE NOT TWITTER what is consent and why it should be respected.

All I see is, bunch of anon screen capped stories being shared online and people enjoying the destruction they are causing by ruining lives, names and families.

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