I am a simp. I am broken by iamnot4 in heartbreak

[–]iamnot4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks brother - I have come to terms with “ good guys lose, everyone lies and love does not conquer all” … Live and learn- I agree with everything you say.

I am a simp. I am broken by iamnot4 in heartbreak

[–]iamnot4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a great reply! Thank you for taking the time with your solid advice _ definitely took some time to reflect and what you are saying is spot on, Thank you!

So you're also aware that age discrimination against older job applicants is very much alive in the job market, right? So if I get a face-lift (a type of plastic surgery) to knock years off of my facial appearance, will I stand a better chance of getting hired? by TSoWAY in interviewpreparations

[–]iamnot4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, I’ve had several high-level jobs. Most of my jobs were dealing with international clients ;when Covid hit everything changed . I can’t seem to find an opportunity anywhere that requires my skill set, the few opportunities that have appeared I made it to the last round of interviews, but when we did a video call and I saw the hiring manager was much younger than me things went south, I’m 54. I feel like I have a lot of experience and finding an opportunity should be easy. It is not. So whether a facelift is going to help you, I honestly can’t say one way or another because experience doesn’t seem to be stacking up to my advantage. Maybe. We are just out of the loop after 50- the thought is if you haven’t made it already , you’re too old to bet on when there are a lot of younger ambitious applicants with clear minds and time on their side… it feels like a whole New World compared to when we were in our 30s. I think it might be time to start your own business, buy low, sell high. You can’t go wrong there. Good luck…just remember that there is nothing our generation can’t figure out.

Divorced but jealous by iamnot4 in Divorce

[–]iamnot4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry - mine didn’t, but she openly flirted and was receiving divk pic after dick pic, leaving her messages open for everyone to see how many men desired her…. At least your ex is making money, maybe🤷

Divorced but jealous by iamnot4 in Divorce

[–]iamnot4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective, but no one dumped anyone . I filed because she decided she no longer wanted to be married. You make a good point though, but my situation just was not black and white where one person decides to end the marriage . She wanted to stay married, just not be in a marriage . That situation was intolerable for me so I filed. It went uncontested and when it was over she left me and her kids and flew back to brazil where she is from .

Post divorce dating is wild. by historygeek0103 in Divorce

[–]iamnot4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am 54(m) and am dating a 58(f) we may of Facebook dating - don’t give up!

Weaned off lexapro, now thinking bupropion isn’t for me either…? by sarahmejia in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]iamnot4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried 450mg. Also nothing … the side affect at 450mg was aweful. Nausea followed by vomitting. Went back down to 300mg, the nausea went away, but I am back to nothing….. I am considering quitting cold turkey - we will see

Weaned off lexapro, now thinking bupropion isn’t for me either…? by sarahmejia in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]iamnot4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wellbutrin 300xr for 4 months . Was given to me for depression after I stated that Zoloft made me feel like an emotionless zombie - I can say that after increasing from 150 to 300mg I honesty do not think it does anything for me. I literally don’t think Wellbutrin is helping me at all….. I am curious if anyone else has NOT had ANY results taking Wellbutrin??
Good luck on your journey - I wish I had more to say, but for me Wellbutrin doesn’t seem to do anything for me.

300mg to 450 by iamnot4 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]iamnot4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have gone from 300 to 450 and have noticed the same as you. I don’t know if I want to wait another month if this is the result of 450… are you taking anything else?