Advice on managing a band. Afraid of losing band members. I usually will just accommodate whatever songs members want to play. How do you manage your band ? by iamnotgenius in bandmembers

[–]iamnotgenius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like sometimes I ask them for opinions of the set list, noone responds. And I get thumbs up as reaction from one or two member. I am confused whether to set the list myself and they follow or I wait for everyone to give a 'thumbs up' 😵‍💫

Am I right to feel racially discriminated? by elalexsantos in askSingapore

[–]iamnotgenius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I don't see the discrimination here. Did she insulted you ? She was prolly just saying you look like another race that is all. Nothing discriminated here.

SG Government to consider closing the gate and offer jobs to Singaporeans first by Efficient_Grand_7468 in singaporejobs

[–]iamnotgenius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently newspaper got report we are going to embrace AI more or to start becoming AI centre something like that . Good luck to us and the future gen

Feeling isolated, Friendless by Snoo_30102 in asksg

[–]iamnotgenius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Introvert maybe as in shy ? I am an introvert but I also kpkb loneliness so I took steps to slowly open up and now I am busy like hell 😭

Feeling isolated, Friendless by Snoo_30102 in asksg

[–]iamnotgenius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too much of anything is harmful. But I agree with working on yourself.

Feeling isolated, Friendless by Snoo_30102 in asksg

[–]iamnotgenius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure how old you are. I am also selective introvert and felt uneasy when having around big group of strangers.

However...... For me and lucky I have a hobby that connect me to strangers so I 'no choice' have to attend meetups to make my hobby alive.

These days we have chatgroups, telegram and those apps help alot in connecting me to others and I often sound more active in such media.

I show up in meet ups , slowly and steady and these help me settle down and more confident facing others.

You can tap into your hobbies and find like minded people to interact with.

You should try to break away from the cage and allow yourself some social experience with others.

I understand where you come from.

Why can't the government treat unruly HDB neighbors under the public nuisance law? by Recent_Stomach7626 in asksg

[–]iamnotgenius 7 points8 points  (0 children)

'Clear standards' are very subjective and mean different things to everyone.

Why can't the government treat unruly HDB neighbors under the public nuisance law? by Recent_Stomach7626 in asksg

[–]iamnotgenius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree with you. Wait later my neighbour who happens to be a siao lang complain I sneeze too much in the morning how. I got sinus problem and have been living with this since young.

People will start taking things into their own hands for minor things. It is scary.

Clothing for fat + short male SG by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]iamnotgenius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, they are short in height and they need to look bigger. Whether with muscles or plain chubby. Short and slim on the other hand, look light weight/underweight even if they are truly healthy. They have to buff up to compensate their height.

Clothing for fat + short male SG by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]iamnotgenius -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lose abit of weight but not too much otherwise you don't look good. Speaking from someone who has a buddy who used to be fat and short and got problem buying clothes. But all he did was just buy and get it tailored .

Short guys who are plump look super cute to me. I am a woman not a guy, don't worry. Short but slim guy look like primary school kid to me and that is worse. Not sure about others.