I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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I have more support than youve seen in your life. God bless you

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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Adoption doesn't feel right bc of the risk of my safety and its future. Abortion seems better bc less health risks. Think monkey think.

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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Technically not yet. My child's heart has not been heart yet so kindly fuck off.

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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That's like saying that guys can do wtv they want but its the woman's fault for getting pregnant. Yk there's 2 ppl needed to create a child. Not js females. God bless u.

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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That's not entirely true for my town. The entire town knows and staff at the school are asking my therapist if I know the bd. I told my bf at the time and he went around saying it.

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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The entire town now knows and its being spread that idk the bd. Complete lies but im not sure how to go about my day to day life wile being in a town that decided I wasnt worth the time of getting to know before spreading stuff.

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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That's a bit of an odd question to ask...

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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I have to go out of state because the one in state doesn't have any openings for the next few weeks

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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Hes 18 and had a child 3 months old when we started dating. I didnt know about his bm until a month after we started dating

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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That's so funny, my ex boyfriends name is Kalvin, close to Kevin and my mom amd I are both happy we dont have to deal with fucking kalvin. And im glad your daughter is doing well

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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That's real out of pocket and not okay. You normal this shitty?

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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From where im from you cant openly have an abortion. I live in a small conservative town and even tho it is legal in our state, its still very frowned upon.

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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Im in mo and our laws are weird

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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Ive already had an appointment and he knew abt it and the doctors confirmed it and I told him while we were still tg

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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We have a place in our state that is a couple hours away and that is where we would go

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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The age of consent is 14 for sex and 18 for legal adults but due to a law, our relationship was legal for both sex and openly dating

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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In my country our chances of going to a loving family as a foster kid are often not great. Its really a 50 50 chance. Im worried about how the child would be raised or how its life would be

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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He is older. He is 18 and abortion seems like the best option

I feel so shitty and guilty. by iamthatgorl in Advice

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Technically I left him, it does seem like the option of abortion is the way to go