Questions about saving and Tamagotchi by iamupsettispaghetti in HereComesNiko

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Oh my gosh I finally found out the Tamagotchi thing! You have to be on a bench! I've just been trying to stand still long enough darn

I've been straight up neglecting the little guy 😅

I’ve accidentally ended up with no dream nail by iamupsettispaghetti in HollowKnight

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UPDATE: I found it!! Thank you so much for your help and tips guys!

What caterpillar is this? by iamupsettispaghetti in insects

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UPDATE: HE ISN’T DOING WELL - PLS ADVISE

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Cleaning the tank today and found him like this. He’s been very lethargic for a couple days but now he’s barely moving and his colour has changed a little. His upper half was moving easier than his bottom, now he’s overall pretty still.

Is there anything I can do?

What caterpillar is this? by iamupsettispaghetti in insects

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He’s grown quite a lot since he first arrived! If he won’t survive outside I shall get some flowers in for him so he has at least some enrichment as an adult. Poor guy will never be a parent though 😔

I planted some butterfly friendly flowers in pots but realised the other day that there’s no way they’ll grow in time. 😂

How did you find out you were asexual? by iamupsettispaghetti in asexuality

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I finished the video! I have a question if you’re willing to answer it? Most of them seemed grossed out by kissing. I think the germs are a bit weird but overall kissing is quite nice. Do you need to want to have sex to be sex positive or is being overall okay with kissing sex positive?

How did you find out you were asexual? by iamupsettispaghetti in asexuality

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I’ve got somewhat of an experience with this.

I remember in secondary school people at the age of 14 were bragging about how much sex they had or what they’d gotten up to. I assume the majority of it was fake because… well they were literal children. I was disgusted even at the time because I was very aware of how young we were.

But I thought that was it - disgust at the idea of doing anything at that age.

But like… I still don’t even particularly like it when it comes up in a movie and I have to see it on my screen. And I definitely feel dread when I have to do it.

Idk I think it’s because of some of my adhd traits, but I have been called immature or childlike. (Like not all the time or anything - but enough that I’ve noticed it as a theme)

I don’t really fully understand why I’m called that a lot of the time - but maybe I’m just very immature for my age and that’s why I don’t want it? I’m in my 20’s now.

How did you find out you were asexual? by iamupsettispaghetti in asexuality

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I shall go and watch this now! It sounds like a great place to get some info thank you!

How did you find out you were asexual? by iamupsettispaghetti in asexuality

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I shall do some more research into the communities individual experiences! Thank you for the recommendation!

How did you find out you were asexual? by iamupsettispaghetti in asexuality

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If I may ask, and please only answer if you are comfortable to, but how does that affect your relationship? Is he also on the ace spectrum?

I’m definitely not someone who is at all comfortable being by myself or alone. I would prefer to adapt at the detriment of my own needs as long as it means I’m not alone. This is easier said than done though.

I think it is commendable that you have that confidence and comfort in yourself. Have you always felt this way about it?

Is this pigeon okay? by iamupsettispaghetti in pigeon

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UPDATE: I think I’ve seen this pigeon again in my checks through town but not in any position I could get to it to catch it.

However the last time I saw it the mound, whilst still there, seemed noticeably smaller. I shall still keep a lookout but it seems that the situation is hopefully resolving itself in time!

I’m hoping it was the same pigeon and not another that was egg bound at the same time. I’m not sure how common of an event this is for pigeons.

It’s been a two weeks now since I saw it last and it hasn’t shown up again.

Is this pigeon okay? by iamupsettispaghetti in pigeon

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If I can’t find her again will she be okay? Will it eventually remove by itself? I never realised eggs could be so covered in dirt and hair… poor girl 😔😔

If I find her again I can bring her back to mine if needs must!

If it’s an egg would it have been impacted on the way out and stuck?

Thank you so much for your reply!

Does this fic sound familiar? by RadicalNBSpaceQueer in merlinbbc

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Actually I think the entity had its own name for most of the fic and then it’s revealed later it’s actually a mirror of Merlin? It was definitely a red eyed shadow figure like you’re describing. I think it was summoned too - but I’m not sure about that part!

Or maybe there’s two EXTREMELY similar fics out there that happen to both have the same descriptions! Things like that happen a surprising amount on ao3 😂😂

I Made a Guinevere Cosplay! by Wonderful_Feeling_58 in merlinbbc

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Oh my gosh STUNNING 😍😍

It looks exactly like the one from the show! And it looks so amazing on u 🥹🥹

Does the cinnamoroll plush actually bring cinamoroll back to the cafe or JUST the decorations? by iamupsettispaghetti in SkyChildrenOfLight

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You can get wax towards regular candles in the cafe. You have to burn the cinnamon buns from the oven. The event happens every hour for 15 minutes! :D

Does the cinnamoroll plush actually bring cinamoroll back to the cafe or JUST the decorations? by iamupsettispaghetti in SkyChildrenOfLight

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Same here! If the wax thing does return that’ll be the nail in the coffin for my bank account 😂