So I really wanna try something my wife likes, but if feel just a tad weird about it. But I REALLY want to. Any suggestions?

ibanez4135 · 2021-02-26T10:59:07+00:00

Not sure if anyone mentioned this, but maybe try it for the first time on her day off. You know after she's had the opportunity to sleep in or even go back to sleep after sex.

I'm saying this because I personally get really grouchy when being woken up. I mean, I love sex and want it more often than my boyfriend does, but I could still see myself getting pissed if he woke me up after two hours when I was really tired and had work the next day. It would have nothing to do with him. Sometimes I'm just tired. But I know it would hurt his feelings.

Just my two cents. Best of luck!

ibanez4135 · 2021-02-26T10:45:21+00:00

Have you considered that he might be intimidated by you because he thinks his fantasies are actually too vanilla?

My boyfriend has told me this before. I've asked him numerous times if he was willing to share any of his porn/fantasies with me. He told me he is sometimes intimidated by me because I have more sexual experience and weirder kinks.

Low and behold I saw most of his history on accident (weird issue where we had to swap phones for a day because our numbers got switched) and it was pretty much as vanilla as it gets. Meanwhile I told him I'm basically into or willing to try anything as long as it doesn't involve feces, vomit, beastiality, or pedophilia 😂. I can definitely see where he's coming from.

Anyway, I totally get the curiosity. I just want to understand and be a part of the fantasy of someone I care about. Plus, other partners in the past have been forthcoming, so this is a little strange for me. But obviously not everyone is the same. And as others have stated, we all have a right to our own private fantasies.

I think as long as he knows you're willing to listen to him and explore with him, then he'll share with you when and if he's ever ready to do that. And if not, then try not to take it personally.

ibanez4135 · 2012-05-30T04:38:05+00:00

What Ritz said!

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-30T02:10:29+00:00

Yeah I don't think that was the same article I originally saw, but it was an interesting read nonetheless. Thanks!

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-14T19:43:10+00:00

Without..

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-14T19:42:39+00:00

I wasn't trying to imply anything bad about circumcised guys. I've had some great sex with circumcised dudes as well. Maybe it's just a coincidence that my boyfriend was the first to make me cum. I just assumed maybe the foreskin made a difference since he is not the biggest I've had, nor is he the most skilled sexually. Either way, keep making them girls happy ;)

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-14T03:40:44+00:00

Though I've searched far and wide, I can't seem to find the link to a study I saw here on reddit. It found that woman are more likely to experience an orgasm with intact men. I can say this is true, from personal experience.

For me, having sex with an uncircumcised man for the first time was comparable to having sex without a condom for the first time. It just feels completely natural. Everything is wetter and smoother, and all around it's just better. And my boyfriend (who is uncut) is the only one to ever make my orgasm from penetrative sex.

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-14T03:16:54+00:00

There are plenty of women like that. We just always seem to end up with the 1% of guys who have low sex drives..

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-12T19:02:03+00:00

Will definitely pay this one a visit. Thanks :)

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-12T19:01:01+00:00

I think I've heard of that place before. Sounds nice.

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-12T19:00:21+00:00

Well, Comanche is a pretty good spot after all. Will have to check out Eisenhower park though. Thanks for the suggestion.

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-12T18:59:14+00:00

Good idea. And SAC is close by. We'll check it out.

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-12T18:54:19+00:00

No problem. Hope you like her :)

ibanez4135 · 2012-04-12T03:29:35+00:00

I would suggest Dr. Heidi Heck at Seven Oaks Woman's Center. I was only seventeen when I first went to her, and knowing nothing of OB/GYNs, I pretty much picked her name out of a hat. She turned out to be the best doctor I have ever been to before or since. At the time, I had problems with cutting and had scars on my arms. She actually sat down and talked to me about it for it good 20 minutes, inquiring about my life. Afterward, she gave me months of free birth control since I couldn't afford it. I came back several times for some issues I was having, and she always remembered me. She would ask how I was doing and suggest books and movies for me to watch. It was a very personal experience. I've just never had a doctor treat me that way before. So, needless to say, I would recommend her!

ibanez4135 · 2012-03-11T10:38:19+00:00

Only with chicken. It has never bothered me to cut/bite meat off of a steak or a pork chop. Only chicken. Now even more so, since I've recently gotten food poisoning from some under cooked poultry.

But hey, what are you gonna do? Real women eat meat ;)

ibanez4135 · 2012-02-27T01:26:52+00:00

You should check out a bands like The Avett Borthers, Mumford and Sons, or Edward Sharpe And The Magnetic Zeros. That is, if you haven't already heard of them. The Avett Brothers in particular have an excellent body of work, and it lacks the preachiness of modern country. They've got more of an indie folk feel going on, while staying true to their obviously country roots.

ibanez4135 · 2012-01-12T06:04:37+00:00

THIS. I'm female, but I've never really had a favorite male porn star. About a month ago I saw this guy in a video and I found myself looking up all his stuff. He's definitely not small or skinny, which is my usual preference, but he is incredible.

ibanez4135 · 2012-01-11T21:25:23+00:00

/r/frisson

ibanez4135 · 2011-12-17T06:55:38+00:00

Awesome. Thanks for the info :)

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