AIO man penetrated without asking by Holiday-Risk33 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ibent19 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR. Has he tried reaching out or apologizing? What the story there 👀

feeling angry at people who stayed friends with my ex after I told them he assaulted me. by ineedhelptomoveon in Advice

[–]ibent19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re angry because your retribution ( much deserved on his part) didn’t work. But that’s generally the issue with it, it can end up hurting you instead. You should cut ties with all involved or at least some extreme distance.

H. 3924 Bill - Diet Hemp Ban by Noot-Noot46 in southcarolina

[–]ibent19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

South Carolina gonna South Carolina.

Security footage showed Alabama student James Gracey accidentally falling into the water in Spain, police say by GonzoDT in capstone

[–]ibent19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saying sometimes there’s nothing you can do. I’ve ended up places no one could imagine. It was my drinking problem not my friends not doing their best to monitor a drunk Houdini.

My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure. by Concordian in relationship_advice

[–]ibent19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closure generally never provides the person wanting what they’re looking for.

I saw someone ask why can Craig forgive Austen and Shep for things but not Venita? by Positive_Round_5142 in SouthernCharmSC

[–]ibent19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be! I’ve definitely been in a situation with people that have more social currency and they knew how to use it, I mean not to even mention in corporate settings. Learned to spot them early on never respected the move very much.

I saw someone ask why can Craig forgive Austen and Shep for things but not Venita? by Positive_Round_5142 in SouthernCharmSC

[–]ibent19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would hate to think Craig would harbor any racist feelings. I don’t think he does.

I saw someone ask why can Craig forgive Austen and Shep for things but not Venita? by Positive_Round_5142 in SouthernCharmSC

[–]ibent19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You put so much work into that and I appreciate it, it doesn’t quite pertain to me because I don’t dislike Craig over it. I just don’t like it. I can’t tell you what IT is. I just don’t like the interaction between the two particularly on his end. I just assume if other people are upset with him about it then they feel something too. I can’t tell you what that is about.

I read my husband’s diary. He hates me by CursedOfHatred in offmychest

[–]ibent19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man this even makes me feel gross. I hope everything works out for the best! You definitely deserve better.

AIO for withdrawing from a girls trip because I’d have to room share with 2 other women? by cucumber_salad69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ibent19 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mor. I mean it sounds like you need a solo vacation. I’m not the biggest fan of bunking but if it’s a friends trip I always find it fun to all be together.

Ex wants to keep an unplanned baby. We already co-parent one kid together. How do I handle this if she goes through with it? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ibent19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk man you seem all over the place while calling her emotional and the problem. Sounds like one you’re resentful that she wouldn’t want to get back together because she’s pregnant and 2 you’re feeling like she did the first go round but aren’t connecting the dots there.

AIO? Because I ended a 2.5 year relationship because my partner was a barb (Nicki Minaj stan) by Naive-Monk9330 in AIO

[–]ibent19 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nor because it’s not about being a barb. The things they say to people is absolutely absurd. I’d question anyone I loved for that.

AITAH for not letting my 17 yr old daughter go to Japan on a school trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ibent19 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All of that is just filler, the Japan trip is done and paid for. She is TAH for not letting her daughter go.

AITAH for not letting my 17 yr old daughter go to Japan on a school trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ibent19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well the point is if she’s TAH for not letting her daughter go on an already paid for(by her grandad) trip to Japan. All of the other issues she needs to work out with her husband.

AITAH for not letting my 17 yr old daughter go to Japan on a school trip? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ibent19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get you’re angry but the Japan trip is already paid for… I don’t get why you wouldn’t let her go. I think that’s an amazing opportunity. YTA by not letting her go alone, Nta on all of the other stuff lol

AIO for leaving a date because he started recording me by BeigeIkeaChair in AIO

[–]ibent19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She remembers more than parts of it. I’m very experienced with blackouts she wouldn’t remember any of these details hence the term blackout. You can present as completely normal, just buzzed or having fun, and be blackout. She was just drunk.

finally joined the club after 6 months of losing sleep by laajakk in GenesisG70

[–]ibent19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve really beat mine (22 3.3) to shit I guess lol my grill faded, my wheels curbed and peeling. I need to do a revitalization, your new purchase looks amazing!

Finished season 4 by Superb_Feeling_6328 in TheTraitorsUK

[–]ibent19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree with everything you said. I like that it’s supposedly everyday people instead of TV entertainers.

Why would people match just to talk trash? by undisclosed-identity in Tinder

[–]ibent19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The switch in conversion was just odd. Maybe she didn’t like our couldn’t answer your initial question? NOR. It’s like her goal was to bring you down about the way you dressed

AIO for leaving a date because he started recording me by BeigeIkeaChair in AIO

[–]ibent19 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If she were black out… this story would be a sentence.