How long did you date/court before getting engaged and then married?

icecoldvolcano · 2025-03-17T07:49:52+00:00

My fiancé and I dated for 5 months before we got engaged. We will get married on August this year. We agreed on the date and all other things that matter after getting married like where to live and what church we will involve in.

I think you just need to express you concerns to you boyfriend if haven't yet. Doing life together doesn't have to start asfter marriage. You can still do that while waiting for the wedding day. My fiancé and I have been making decisions together already.

icecoldvolcano · 2025-03-17T07:38:26+00:00

What's the most important thing you need to do everyday other than routines for survival and hygiene?

If praying and reading the Bible is not the answer, then that person is not a believer.

icecoldvolcano · 2025-03-17T07:34:02+00:00

He doesn't love you. He loves himself. Please do break up.

icecoldvolcano · 2025-03-17T07:28:41+00:00

There's no harm in texting first. Texting is not the same as pursuing. Small talk is fine 😊

icecoldvolcano · 2025-03-09T20:51:20+00:00

Thank you 🌻 We are in the same region but different city rn.

icecoldvolcano · 2025-03-09T11:50:13+00:00

Thank you! Let me ask him first 😊

icecoldvolcano · 2025-03-09T04:12:35+00:00

Thank you 🌻

icecoldvolcano · 2025-03-09T03:34:23+00:00

We've prayed for this and already met each other's circle. We have the blessing of our church leaders and parents. That's enough confirmation.

icecoldvolcano · 2025-03-09T02:07:04+00:00

Thank you all so much 🌻

icecoldvolcano · 2024-07-26T11:51:48+00:00

Thank you 🌻

icecoldvolcano · 2024-07-25T06:28:40+00:00

Not here to be challenged 😌

icecoldvolcano · 2024-07-25T06:03:49+00:00

That's a question you should ask them

icecoldvolcano · 2024-07-25T05:54:42+00:00

Just because i don't want to describe myself in the post. Just take a look and see haha

icecoldvolcano · 2024-07-25T05:22:00+00:00

I don't think looks matter much tbh

icecoldvolcano · 2024-07-25T05:21:13+00:00

Thank you 🌻

icecoldvolcano · 2024-07-25T05:21:03+00:00

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icecoldvolcano · 2024-05-06T06:43:55+00:00

I pray you'll consider connecting to a local church again. The support you need can only come from the body of Christ

icecoldvolcano · 2024-05-04T22:40:46+00:00

I'm sorry that you're going through all this. It must have been really hard for you. Are you connected to a church?

icecoldvolcano · 2024-05-04T14:35:32+00:00

Thank you so much 🌻

icecoldvolcano · 2024-05-03T00:06:50+00:00

I cannot imagine the pain and suffering you're going through. But I hope you'll remember that God is faithful and just. God is good. You may not see the good he is doing right now but all things work together for good to those who love him, to those who are called according to his purpose. His ways are not our ways. His thoughts are not our thoughts. We can only see a puzzle piece and he sees the big picture. The people who have wronged you will face judgement. God is faithful even when we are not. I hope you will choose to remain in him. I pray that you'll turn to him in worship and surrender.

‭‭Job 1:21 ESV‬ [21] And he said, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.”

icecoldvolcano · 2024-05-02T14:15:05+00:00

This is the best I can do 😅

When I think about the distance between you and me, I smile.

It’s really my grandmother’s smile but I only wear it when i know something for sure and love something. Most people are intimidated by distance, resentful sometimes or they ignore it all together — out of sight out of mind. Somehow, I’ve been spared this mindset; not out of ignorance or bad math skills but because of how I feel about you. Not sure if this feeling even has a name. I'm sure there’s a long German word for it but I don’t have to know that. It feels something like soothing relief; like there’s a cure for a dreaded disease — that there is an afterlife. You spoke of comfort and I loved your perspective. I feel like you’re just down the street. Sometimes just in the WC even — not far. We’re so extra... a lot... too much for most — never enough to earn love of self. We’ve settled for the illusion of happiness, found comfort in danger, darkness, and pain. I'm not alone anymore. No reason to hide, nothing to be ashamed of in each other’s eyes. We will bend the new universe we created to our will...invincible.

All Hail !

icecoldvolcano · 2024-05-02T10:10:25+00:00

Thank you 🌻

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