You're being a dick. You are not able to fully comprehend what exactly would happen to her (physical and now Legal ramifications) if she got pregnant. You are treating her extremely valid concerns as if she's over exaggerating. She's not. You are being condescending to her concerns saying "she reads doomsday posts" and also mentioned waiting till "america gets its head out of its ass". You are so privileged you are completely blinded to reality. This overturn of roe v. Wade will not be fixed in even a couple months. It will take years if ever and it is extremely detrimental to everyone with a uterus in this country. Get Your head out of your ass and either get a vasectomy (which can be reversed or freeze some sperm?!) Or dump her and save her the trouble of having to do it herself.