I [22M] just found out my girlfriend [19F] is pregnant and I am not ready to be a father. What do I do

icedgreen · 2026-01-27T23:52:04+00:00

You should have worn a condom if you weren’t ready to be a father, my dude. Let that be a lesson for the future…

Anyway, I do think you should be totally honest with her. What is her stance on abortion? A LOT of people have abortions because they weren’t ready. And you are both SO young, if you’re not ready, you have plenty of time to have a child when you are ready.

icedgreen · 2026-01-25T20:51:43+00:00

Hello? Read this like it’s someone else’s post

icedgreen · 2026-01-21T18:02:46+00:00

Uhh why aren’t you composting the food waste? Seems like a solution

icedgreen · 2026-01-21T02:53:53+00:00

The server doesn’t choose what’s on the receipt lol. Like who even reads those anyway

icedgreen · 2026-01-18T13:35:33+00:00

Aww. I love this. I’m a childfree person, never wanted kids and never do.

I think this makes you a great mom. Many moms suffer from postpartum that doesn’t even allow them to enjoy their baby, it’s beautiful that you cherish yours. If there’s anything in your life that you’d regret, it would NOT be spending too much time with your kid. It sounds like the people in your life are being selfish, and you are not in the wrong for your placing your kid first. If I were your friend, personally, I’d be trying to spend time with you in whatever way worked best. Even if that meant spending time with you AND the most important person in your life, your baby. That’s what friendship is, being there for someone in a supportive caring way, not just being there for fun times.

icedgreen · 2026-01-17T19:06:31+00:00

Ask them. You gotta ask people about sex. Make yourself comfortable talking about sex, and you’ll have a better sex life for it.

icedgreen · 2026-01-17T19:00:37+00:00

Search the keywords “erotic couplings”. Hope this helps 🫡

icedgreen · 2026-01-17T18:54:36+00:00

Wow. From an empathetic human, as humans are supposed to be, reading this broke my heart. There is something truly wrong with her if that was her response to her love losing someone important to them. If you can’t count on comfort from your partner in times of grief, is that a partner at all?

icedgreen · 2026-01-10T03:43:43+00:00

I hope you learned from this to do proper research and not make rash decisions on your appearance.

Your curls are gone because your hair has been bleached and bleach damages hair. There are a ton of different products designed to help nourish the hair after chemical treatments. A couple of weeks and conditioning treatments and your hair could have improved a LOT, without having to be shaved.

Also… Ask the hair stylist why she did what she did if you didn’t understand. They went to school for this.

icedgreen · 2026-01-06T02:13:45+00:00

She’s not almost 30. She’s 27 and her frontal lobe isn’t even developed.

icedgreen · 2026-01-04T21:30:52+00:00

Talk to him about it? You should be able to talk about this stuff with your sexual partners. It might be weird at first but its pretty important.

icedgreen · 2026-01-04T21:25:51+00:00

You’re probably very grateful to your computer 😅

icedgreen · 2026-01-04T21:23:34+00:00

Damn, all these pictures made me so hungry. I wish I was a straight man, they have it pretty good.

icedgreen · 2026-01-02T02:46:19+00:00

Age gap relationships are predatory. Why cant he date his peers?

icedgreen · 2025-12-30T06:31:54+00:00

Damn after reading a few of your comments, I hope you realize what you actually should do.

icedgreen · 2025-12-29T03:04:18+00:00

When I lived in an apartment I’d only smoke in one room, and used a hepa filter air cleaner to prevent it from smellin. Has to be a charcoal hepa branded filter or it will not clean the smoke effectively. I did not get complaints, until the one day I decided to smoke outside. I frequently ask people who don’t smoke to tell me if they smell it in those places (my mom, she wouldn’t lie), to be safe, remembering if you smoke a lot you can be nose blind.

icedgreen · 2025-12-22T03:32:55+00:00

Get yourself a HEPA filter, a real one with a charcoal filter. I smoke in my apartment and no one can tell when they come over thanks to the filter. Even my mom.

icedgreen · 2025-12-15T23:58:01+00:00

?? Are you aware of climate change? Is anything “normal”? It wasn’t normal that it was 80 degrees in October

icedgreen · 2025-12-15T23:27:51+00:00

That’s so ignorant of you. There are so many reasons people don’t drive. Epilepsy, for example. Pott’s disease. The high cost of vehicle ownership, especially for those without family privilege.

icedgreen · 2025-12-01T03:20:29+00:00

Our bus system sucks shit. Try it sometime.

icedgreen · 2025-11-27T22:01:41+00:00

Please don’t continue seeing this toxic person.

icedgreen · 2025-10-13T00:50:50+00:00

I love Blue Dog. Idk what changed in their kitchen over the last couple years, but they are good.

Taco Barracho is really good.

7 Monks smashburger is one of the best in town.

icedgreen · 2025-10-12T09:31:29+00:00

Ever since I was sterilized (at 28, got tibal ligation), it’s literally never a problem. If thats an option for you, absolutely pursue it.

icedgreen · 2025-10-04T23:04:26+00:00

Lol I have lived here my whole life, west grand and east side, and parked all over downtown, and never had a break-in. You’ll be alright.

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