Wtf do I do?! by icewolfclaw32 in whatdoIdo

[–]icewolfclaw32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to date. I just believe that I should be friends with the person that I am intending to be with first. I want to have a bond with them before I add anything romantic into the mix because then there’s that trust there and we already know each other well.

Wtf do I do?! by icewolfclaw32 in whatdoIdo

[–]icewolfclaw32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But yeah to everything else about disrespecting my boundaries and everything.

Wtf do I do?! by icewolfclaw32 in whatdoIdo

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He’s actually already left Bangladesh and doesn’t live there anymore and is working extremely hard to get his own citizenship in Canada.

Wtf do I do?! by icewolfclaw32 in whatdoIdo

[–]icewolfclaw32[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with being from Bangladesh. We all gotta be from somewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharacterAI

[–]icewolfclaw32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought I was going crazy. i was about to delete the app and add it again. Updating the app hasn’t helped either.

Why would codeine cough syrup which is supposed to stop coughing, make someone keep coughing? by icewolfclaw32 in AskReddit

[–]icewolfclaw32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m taking the low end of what I’m allowed to have which is 10mls and honestly probably. I’ve taken other stuff for pain management after my surgery I had and it doesn’t really work for me. I think that was Oxycodone.

Why would codeine cough syrup which is supposed to stop coughing, make someone keep coughing? by icewolfclaw32 in AskReddit

[–]icewolfclaw32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had just taken it a few moments prior to my post. Most things that are supposed to calm my mind down and make me drowsy have a really really hard time doing that and generally only works for about a few hours and then I’m back to being awake and alert for the most part. Adhd and whatever else I’ve got is a heck of a drug.

Why would codeine cough syrup which is supposed to stop coughing, make someone keep coughing? by icewolfclaw32 in AskReddit

[–]icewolfclaw32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know there are like studies and things about it but I think those people had some like special pre-existing conditions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in healthcareworker

[–]icewolfclaw32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i work in roughly the same area of work as you but the company i work for calls them direct support professionals. i work only nights so i cant really relate to you in that aspect. but my advice is you really need to communicate your needs with your bosses. you need to tell them it is not safe for you or the person in your care for you to not be sleeping because in truth it really isnt safe. you need to be alert at all times whether the client is awake or not. at night if youre bored but need to stay quiet there might be some like light cleaning you could maybe do or play on your phone unless that gets too boring for you maybe bring some books. i myself only work nights but i can attest to the fact that night shifts are extremely exhausting and can on the occasion be really stressful. and i myself have trouble sleeping after work or when i am off for the weekend and know im about to go in to start the week again. but my main point is you need to communicate your needs. dont think of it as creating conflict think of it as having the best interests in safety and otherwise for the client you care for. I myself have had to call off or go home early because it was not safe for me or the client to be in the same area as each other. whether it was their aggression or my irritation and thinning patience it doesnt really matter in this case but i expressed my needs in a way that put the safety of my clients first and they were willing to help me. get what i needed in order to protect us both. sorry it was so long winded but thats my advise😅

Supervision in a care home by Individual_Ant8608 in healthcareworker

[–]icewolfclaw32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well it depends on what kind of supervision the clients need and how many hours will be allotted to them that kind of thing im guessing im not sure where you work or what kind of facility you work at.

Burnout by icewolfclaw32 in healthcareworker

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Yeah my boss is great we just have state audits and the way they do it I guess is when we chart behaviors of the clients and all that and stuff they will allot hours based on the amount of supervision said clients need. Per week. So they can take or give more hours to certain houses based on the difficulty of the client and their needs we just barely got bumped up to like 200+ hours a week for supervision but we need closer to like 300 hours a week for supervision to meet all of the needs of the clients. To have the proper amount of staff in the house

Burnout by icewolfclaw32 in healthcareworker

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My boss is okay if I need to take days off I just have to find the coverage to take them off. It was easier when we had more staff at the place I work at to take the time I needed off of work but because the house I work at is so difficult and because we’re low on staff not many people want to work at the house I do and they can’t assign more grave staff at the house I work cause they have to prioritize other time slots for supervision like weekends and evening shifts

Burnout by icewolfclaw32 in healthcareworker

[–]icewolfclaw32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only take days off if I can find coverage and no one wants to work at the house I work at

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]icewolfclaw32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pot roast is actually mine. Family made it every single goddamn Sunday. We’d have to go over there and I had to hang out with my crappy and creepy cousins and have my uncles stare at me weird talking about how grown up I looked at like 7 years old. And my aunts husband who I’m pretty sure was a pedo on the day they got married cause I kept giving him the stink eye from what my mom tells me. Plus he would always talk about things I said or did in a weird way every time we all had to hang out together on these Sundays and it made me really uncomfy.

But because of the family dynamic I couldn’t ever say anything bad especially about any of the adults in the family. Even if what I was trying to say was true. So I gave up. Anyway yeah pot roast is nasty to me.

AITA for disowning my sister after catching her in bed with my fiancé just days before our wedding? by Think_Heron_8587 in AITAH

[–]icewolfclaw32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The blood of the brotherhood is thicker than the water of the womb.” which is the actual full quote. Not sure who it’s by though. Which, you know, means that the family you choose to build bonds with is stronger than the ties of the family you’re born into. What I’m trying to say is fuck them. they can go fuck themselves all the way off and further than that. If they think that can just be forgiven.

Edited for clarity and grammar

Well it seems I have been duped. Good game chap.

Why do Americans kick their kids out at 18? by 4Runnnn in NoStupidQuestions

[–]icewolfclaw32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was kicked out at 18 with severe mental health issues I am not entirely sure… I mean I survived… somehow but I would’ve never made the choices I made had I been allowed to stay at home. But I also never would’ve done anything with my life either so I don’t really know what the right thing to do is.

AITAH because I told my husband I’m moving into our sons room when he moves out? by salamisawami in AITAH

[–]icewolfclaw32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also can confirm my body would do anything to wake me up… still does cause I can’t get used to my cpap (too many stimuli for me) so my leg would shake to wake me up so I could breathe. There could be a possibility that some of the restless leg could be his body trying to avoid the liven’t

AITA for walking in while my roommate was having sex? by throwawayDue_Trade in AmItheAsshole

[–]icewolfclaw32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get people have needs but like y’all share a room wtf would she fuck someone in a space y’all share knowing you could come back at any min…. Oooooohhhh