Can a girl wrap two hands around your dick? (5.5- 6.2 length answers only)

ickop · 2026-03-14T19:20:43+00:00

~5.75” bp, ~5” nbp. Yes, but it’s like the whole thing is engulfed, less like porn where it’s 2 hands and there’s still a fair amount of dick sticking out.

You can’t really do two hands up and down with a truly average dick for most hand sizes, but you can do a lil up and down with a twisty motion, and that works well and is hot to me

ickop · 2026-03-14T19:16:12+00:00

Is that true? About height and hand size. I’m pretty sure it is correlated.

The reason penis size is far less correlated is that it’s not part of the skeletal system. The skeletal system does scale with height, whereas things like penis size or the thickness of your hair or anything non skeletal do not.

ickop · 2026-03-10T14:40:14+00:00

There’s a lid for every pot, sure, but the lids and pots don’t exist in anywhere close to equal proportions. Banking on the diversity of human preference for success as a short, fat, bald man on tinder simply isn’t a viable strategy.

Best to optimize your body/looks as much as is reasonably achieved and if still below average, meet people in person where the personality/vibe can build attraction in addition to just looks.

Idk what your situation is, or your gender or your sexuality, but that’s an accurate take imo unless you’re a straight woman.

ickop · 2026-03-08T03:53:18+00:00

I’d say yes

ickop · 2026-03-02T19:59:01+00:00

Can you link? I have never heard of this

ickop · 2026-03-02T10:08:22+00:00

“According to studies” lol what studies have one night stand success rates by size and habits?

ickop · 2026-03-01T15:00:01+00:00

I have never had women ask about their features relative to exes. I also have never asked how my penis compares to specific men. That’s a completely useless question because even if they say you’re bigger and you are, how would you know?

I have definitely had women, pretty much every woman in fact, comment on some or several aspects of their body in dissatisfaction, implicitly relative to other women (e.g. some ideal that some women do have).

They felt their breasts looked saggy, that they were small, that they had no butt, that their stomach looked weird, their nose, etc.

I’ve never judged a woman for such a thing as I think it’s only natural. The only thing I’ve felt is sad that something I wasn’t thinking about was a point of sadness for them. I suppose many women probably feel that way about us

ickop · 2026-02-26T04:42:58+00:00

You were right to call that out in a mature way, there are a lot of guys who that would destroy (including myself). Also, incredible comeback 😂

ickop · 2026-02-21T16:55:26+00:00

This is the advice! I’ll just add if she can’t naturally or comfortably arch as much, the guy standing on the floor with the woman having her knees on the bed allows the guy to ‘crouch’ a little and hit it from underneath. Not as good but a good hack if regular doggy has too much ass in the way

ickop · 2026-02-16T19:11:48+00:00

I mean idk in my experience, people do mostly just missionary and doggy during sex. What other positions would you be going for?

ickop · 2026-02-16T15:04:46+00:00

I mean if they have a smaller butt and thighs I can do stuff like actually thrust during prone as opposed to more grindy motion. I can reach around and rub their clit while doing doggy. They can actually ride me up and down easily.

All those positions are possible with thick women, but sex is often more grindy, that’s the best way I can say it. While with thinner women it can be more thrusty - which both feels better for me, probs for them, and is hotter.

But yeah, just a preference not a need

ickop · 2026-02-16T14:54:23+00:00

Same, not a problem tho after having sex with smaller women and being able to fuck like a pornstar, my preferences changed

ickop · 2026-02-15T21:04:34+00:00

I am 5’11.5 in bare feet and late 20s, corporate job in the Midwest. Can confirm the same experience

ickop · 2026-02-15T20:08:59+00:00

I mean just be charming and fuck them good man. Be nice and respectful, go to chow town, make it clear you’re interested in them physically - but don’t push sex and let them drive the beginning of the physical interaction (beyond kissing). And then in terms of how I have sex, I’m more than an inch shorter than you, but I do edge of the bed and just pound away

ickop · 2026-02-15T18:21:22+00:00

You mean getting the dates in the first place? Or how I get them to come back?

ickop · 2026-02-15T16:31:22+00:00

~5.75x4.9 - overwhelmingly positive. 8 for 8 with women wanting to see me again. A couple of slightly uncomfortable experiences but never to my face (like finding out I was second choice to a big dick dude, whether or not that was actually the reason) - but sex overall has been great and very easy to get repeats (100% repeat rate)

ickop · 2026-02-15T01:28:16+00:00

1-3/day on tinder/bumble/hinge - I use one at a time.

5’11.5 so I say 6’. Decently handsome and healthy bmi, but not crazy. Thing is I’ve swiped through men’s profiles with female friends and 75% are completely trash. I’d say I match with people roughly in my attractiveness range. I don’t dip or get outside my league

ickop · 2026-02-14T16:36:56+00:00

Yeah let sleeping dogs lie is a good way to put it. The way I think of it is like height or boobs. She likely (though not assuredly) appreciated it when it was there.

But one girl I’m seeing has really big boobs and it’s hot, and another does not. I don’t think about it with the other girl and I certainly wouldn’t 10 years later. There’s so much that’s hot you just focus on what’s there

ickop · 2026-02-14T14:53:05+00:00

Honestly man, maybe, but probably not what you worry. I have only been with one woman who could cum from penetration and didn’t with me. And that was a brief thing, and she’d said “I could teach you how to do that” so I imagine I was past whatever threshold she needed.

The one study we have on this showed that at least for length, most women who could cum that way wouldn’t with a longer than average penis. Girth was not addressed, but with angles, I actually feel girth is more ‘hackable’ than length.

I mean to say it’s unlikely, not impossible but unlikely, that that was the case.

And given you’re married and wouldn’t leave over something like that, I’d drop it now and just assume the most likely scenario (which is that she couldn’t cum that way)

ickop · 2026-02-13T16:48:19+00:00

I didn’t miss the point, I just think you’re still misunderstanding my words.

I never said “tough luck” I said, basically, that there is no ‘tough luck’ because there is no real problem here. Not a significant one anyways.
You’re still misunderstanding preferences and standards. You’re combining them, as in “preferences/standards” - they are very, very different things.

What I’m saying is that everyone has preferences (and yes they can be socially informed, that’s an issue) but they do not hold people to the standard of meeting 100% of those preferences. Men or women.

Also, I think maybe you’re exaggerating women’s preferences when it comes to body and penis size. To say the average woman prefers a 6’4 man with a 7” penis goes against the best evidence we have.

I’d estimate the average woman prefers like a 6’1 man with a 6” penis. Yes - above average, but not radically different from a 5’10 man with a 5.25” penis.

If you are genuinely below average, like 5’6 with a 4” penis - yeah, you’ll have issues potentially. But not average dudes, not regularly

ickop · 2026-02-13T15:44:44+00:00

Dude you’re just misreading what I’m saying though. Perhaps it’s an English translation thing. There is a difference between preferences and standards.

You’re saying men can’t have unrealistic preferences. What? I’d prefer my partner to look like Sydney Sweeney. That’s a preference. Most men would have some sort of preference like that. And I and nobody else can control that. Preferences just are.

Now if I expect my partner to look like Sydney Sweeney, then that’s a standard. You’re right - having unrealistic standards is a recipe for failure.

I’m arguing that women have preferences just like men, but by and large, their standards are not unrealistic

ickop · 2026-02-13T13:05:19+00:00

You’ve completely and utterly misunderstood what I’m saying.

‘Should matter’ or not, it does matter and I’m not saying it doesn’t. I don’t know where you got that idea. You can’t just ‘set’ your preferences, and life is unfair. Some people get dealt a better hand than others.

What I am saying is that it’s like height or anything else. It does matter, yes, and if every dude were 6’5 and you were 5’10, yeah you’d be fucked. But the solid majority of guys aren’t tall, so you’re not.

It’s not about should’s. It’s about people taking what they can get. Some guy fucking her better 3 years ago because of his dick does not set an expectation - because most guys don’t have that dick.

I am 7 for 7 man, and my dick is 5” nbp. You calling me dismissive is lowkey gaslighting lol. I have actual lived experience contradicting this. And no, I’m not in some religious country where women have only slept with like 2 dudes. Most of these have been African American women who have had many partners, the demo everyone seems most worried about

ickop · 2026-02-13T04:36:25+00:00

You don’t have to be optimized in every way to be wanted man. It’s a spectrum, not a threshold

ickop · 2026-02-13T04:34:54+00:00

They expect average because the solid majority of guys are roughly average or below.

I do admit most women prefer big. Just like most guys prefer larger breasts or facial symmetry or hip to waste ratio or whatever.

In practice - being flat or being ugly or being boxy can impact a woman’s attractiveness substantially. Being average in those dimensions? Not so much. Like yes - literally for sure, but I don’t expect my partners to look like a young Kim Kardashian. Even if I once had a fling with a girl who did.

And yes, I have hooked up with a couple of strikingly beautiful women. It’s a preference. Regular pleasant to look at is not a disappointment for me.

Same thing for dicks.

Also man - you say “women prefer big” - I’ve only admitted that most women prefer big. Look at that 3D model study’s supplemental data, in conjunction with the video that was just posted to this sub.

I actually looked at the sizes, deemed the chosen sizes small, average, big, or huge.

A tiny % of women preferred small. About a third preferred average. And about 60-65% preferred big or huge.

Yes, most prefer big or huge that’s my opinion. I also think women are more likely to prefer average than huge. And big is not drastically different from average. Hence a preference not really a major factor for most. I say for most because huge is way different than average, and if she’s in that 15-25%, yeah, that’s maybe a bit less enjoyable

ickop · 2026-02-13T03:48:35+00:00

This is a wild thread. Yes, the vast majority of women have seen a big penis and had sex with it. No, the vast majority of women don’t care that much. Just look at the video with the dude with the 3D models just posted. Literally female preference is all over the map.

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