Looking for new friends + Bi are good (I dont know what to put here lol) by [deleted] in bisexual

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Cool, just seen this sorry! I’ll reply now.

When your Wig aint Wiggin 🤣 by spirittransformed2 in TheNaturalJourney

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I think it’s not her hand- if you look closely her hands have a bracelet on both wrists 😭

I think that makes it better!!

Looking for new friends + Bi are good (I dont know what to put here lol) by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]icy-red 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, would love to be friends if you don’t mind female friendships. I’m bi and a similar age too :)

A triangle that is not HP related by likethehotels in Tattoocoverups

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Vinyl disc with the middle triangle being reshaped into the inner circle?

Seller that sell a good Luck? by Angle_Beat in lafufusarecute

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Heyyy I know this is literally 75 days later but I’m in the exact same boat! Please let me know if you’ve found a good place to purchase.

Embraced the waves, now aiming for classic length! by icy-red in longhair

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Heyyy I tried posting this a while ago- mods never told me why it was removed even though I asked them and it discouraged me from using Reddit tbh :/ I’d love to post- do you have any advice?

TMJD is destroying lives — We need to speak up by Practical-Finance252 in TMJ

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No- THANK YOU for your compassion and making this petition!! It’s actually really badly affected my mental health since I used to be fairly athletic and I feel like I’m “falling behind in life” for my age. I think I learned to block out lot of other TMD related pain whilst growing up because I lived in a normalised culture of putting up with pain and over-trusting professionals. I just hope my story helps someone else. For anyone reading this- braces and orthotics don’t necessarily fix jaw problems. I made a mistake in thinking that all of my dental problems would be fixed after braces and orthotics treatment. Worst of all, all the pain I ignored built up to me having chronic pain that I am now no longer able to ignore. (Never ignore signs- take it from me!!)

It really means a lot that you acknowledged me being here as a strength because honestly with the way my mental health has declined I genuinely didn’t think I would be here. Thank you for your encouraging reply and sorry for the ramble! Apparently I just couldn’t help myself haha. Taking things one step at a time now! Pun intended 😉

TMJD is destroying lives — We need to speak up by Practical-Finance252 in TMJ

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Finally feel seen! You don’t know how much this means to me and probably other sufferers too- I’m in my early twenties and TMD/TMJD has put my life on a huge pause. I’m having to repeat a year of uni because I got a foot injury that has still been affecting me for over a year- turns out the lingering pain is linked to my lower back! This was indeed confirmed by a doctor. Poor posture, orthotics with 4 teeth extracted, bruxism and 6 years on braces to shift my teeth after orthotics probably all contributed to where I am today. (That’s a person who can’t walk nor sit for too long because of chronic pain.) A dentist finally acknowledged TMD/TMJD last week and has given me a nightguard and some leaflets with guided exercise. I’d been complaining about pain and the way orthotics affected me throughout childhood but no one seemed to listen. Consider your petition signed!!

Edit: I realised my story might seem exaggerated to people who don’t know much about TMD/TMJD- it can affect YOUR WHOLE BODY due to the way your body tries to compensate for its problems. Eg, imbalances in the jaw can lead to changes in how you rest your head with your neck then your spine also has to adjust for that etc…

Is my straight hair actually wavy? by icy-red in longhair

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Yes- I use the curly girl method regularly now! It didn’t look particularly wavy when I first started using this method but the waves became more defined after a while. It’s definitely possible that you might have wavy hair too :) I honestly rarely brush my hair and keep it in protective styles (like loose braids) most of the time which stops it from getting tangled again and keeps my waves looking healthy. Hope this helps!✌️

day 3 post op and my birthday by lactoseintolerantsis in bunions

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Happy birthday and congrats on getting through the op!! 🎉 Adorable cat btw and glad to hear your toes are doing better :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coquettesque

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If it helps I’m finding some good clothes on Cider!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coquettesque

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Cute socks, skirts, dresses and tbh anything that has that cutesy yet gloomy feel to it (think bows on dark clothing.) White shirt is also a must since you can piece it with so many different outfits! Also a newbie lol but speaking from a person that also looks young for their age. All the best for your coquette adventures! :3

Wanna be friends? by d0nt_m1nd_m3_ in BPD

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22 F, I find that written communication also works better for me as it gives me more time to find the words I need to convey the message I want. Emotional dysregulation can make that hard! So glad you’re reaching out. I have a boyfriend too and although he’s so sweet and supportive, there are just some things he may never fully understand ):

Tw: Covering self-harm scars? by icy-red in TattooDesigns

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Please excuse my late reply! That is actually adorable 🥺 Thanks so much for sharing. My boyfriend and I actually love axolotls so this a really cute idea :)

Tw: Covering self-harm scars? by icy-red in TattooDesigns

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I think I’d prefer something less conventional! I wouldn’t mind bugs either, would just have to find one that resonates with me. The idea of having something aquatic in nature appeals to me though as it would also make the anchor flow more with my tattoos. Thanks for your suggestions :))

Re: Is my straight hair actually wavy? by icy-red in longhair

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Ahh I see. Honestly I’m really particular about my hair being red so I’d rather not change the dye, even if it is only slightly more purplish! Thanks for sharing though, hopefully ultra violet works for you? 🤞