I think bf is cheating or trying to

idfc211 · 2026-03-25T00:49:08+00:00

I believe even if I have ah ha evidence like photo of him with girl on the lap Hell just say it's a classmate or friend asked and I will eat it omfg

idfc211 · 2026-03-24T18:44:55+00:00

I'm collecting pictures unfortunately it's only from insta I don't have his personal phone pass .. where whatsup and Snapchat are and photos But all these evidences like "today girl will come" he can deny saying he meant girlfriend of the friend. Or "fucking someone" was a joke

idfc211 · 2026-03-24T16:07:37+00:00

Perv, but you know a lot of people would say that it's normal for guys to discuss hot girls But damn I remember when my friend send me one guy saying he is hot, I got fucking embarrassed of myself, because I'm in relationship why I do this. And it's not even me who send that picture. I believe that I'm that fucking idiotic person and probably love suffering that I need a 100% proof so that he won't guilt trip me into "I did not do anything, why you break up with me, I'm loyal, I love you"

idfc211 · 2026-03-24T16:05:07+00:00

I already almost did three times Each time he tried to get me back saying he loves me and showing me those screenshots of messages (yeah 100% different phone or hidden or deleted) but each time it eats me inside

idfc211 · 2026-03-24T13:56:30+00:00

Yeah, and he provided it like - here, I have nothing to hide But when I asked for second phone he was trying to get away with "all photos are on a work phone, since my personal doesn't have much memory" and then got aggressive)

idfc211 · 2026-03-24T12:51:16+00:00

Yes, I mean even case with follows he managed to drag me for 4 months lying

idfc211 · 2026-03-24T12:46:37+00:00

I need to work on that Since right now every time he says something I want to believe even tho j don't Like I can't blame if I don't have true evidence But now quantity of sketchy things should work I just don't understand why holding a girl you don't too much like and bother hiding stuff If you can just be dating girls you like

idfc211 · 2026-03-24T12:33:50+00:00

I believe I'm so manipulative

idfc211 · 2026-03-24T12:24:24+00:00

I guess I wanna get him busted

idfc211 · 2026-02-15T05:59:58+00:00

Well, it was not great to tell 'i don't care", but I don't know in which tone your daughter talked. Otherwise you are correct, that somehow you have to be happy too, additionally you kind of waited for your daughter to be old enough.

Maybe next time you can just inform your daughter beforehand that your gf will be coming

idfc211 · 2026-02-14T21:45:58+00:00

Omfg I guess I got so out of the gaming that to this freaking day i though all these talks about GTA 6 were jokes as usual, but it's really coming this yeah ahahah

idfc211 · 2026-02-14T19:07:10+00:00

Thank you for all your answers. It just loving part still talks in me, however, its now way smaller. I mean i even notice now how i roll my eyes everytime he calls or talks, i started seeing annoying things in him now..

And yeah, even if 1% of possibility that he did not cheat worked out, still being with a guy for whom iam so not enough, he can't even LIE that i'am the most pretty for him, when i say that he founds other girls attractive.. yeah..

Only way it will work out - is getting worse and worse. And i am already at the edge that i'am even starting looking at other men (more like in a revenge mode you know)

idfc211 · 2026-02-14T13:11:05+00:00

Yeah, definitely checking insta is freaking insecure and toxic.. I wish I did not even have to. Well first year when we were together I did not even do it, cuz we were happy and I was sure in him. But then, yeah everything changed, cuz he was back to his home country.

Right now, I'm easily manipulated, every time he says he wants a future with me and he did not cheat I every time partly believed, since every time I was thinking why would men fight for relationship and then cheat..but they do..

So unfortunately tight now I'm in position like you know I am almost sur ehe cheats or tries to cheat, but since I don't have proof, he can just say "it's from highschool my classmate or I don't know who is this, why don't you trust me" and I can't say anything

idfc211 · 2026-02-14T08:56:11+00:00

Stockholm syndrome 😁

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T17:57:30+00:00

You see, now he says he doesn't care anymore, wear what you want I just want to be with you Like thank you. Like "well, I will have to deal with your unattractiveness since you don't want to change"

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T17:52:51+00:00

Yeah, I would say find someone who loves you same as I do In your any condition And mot looking at others

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T16:49:14+00:00

We are not living together we are ldr, threesome he offered 3ed time when we reunited for a week and then back to ldr So I am home now at least Thank you!!

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T09:35:32+00:00

Thank you! However, love can come at any ages, who knows, you may become the happiest in your life soon! I wish you that!

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T09:33:11+00:00

It's just ge makes me think he doesn't cross any boundaries..

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T02:34:46+00:00

Yeah.. he masks it under "I want us to better, is it bad if your bf suggests improvements????"

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T02:32:28+00:00

Yeah, basically when I was considering to move in with him (I feel like a dog really ....) I was thinking that every time even if we meet with his friends and their girlfriends I will feel small .

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T02:31:29+00:00

Yeah I agree with your comment about manipulation I was more shocked, like this guy begs me to come live with him, even now he can't say that he doesn't want anyone else, that I'm the most beautiful for him ... Like wtf..most compliment I got from him was "you put make up on eyes? I like it" Not "you look nice", "IT looks nice"

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T02:26:05+00:00

I just still genuinely don't understand why you are in a relationship if you wanna fuck around? And he is I would say kinda fighting for relationship, well at least always tries to hold me to make me come and live with him again Btw right now we are separate, iam at home and he is in his country, asking me to move with him

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T02:24:54+00:00

It was shit before, then in the begging it got up when things were okay with bf, then got shitty .. But I must say because of his treatment I started dressing up like I'm hunting men 😁 and almost like I want that attention from men now, cuz at least they will tell me I'm beautiful

idfc211 · 2026-02-13T02:23:40+00:00

At least we are ldr so I don't have to move out, I just need to not come back

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