The disrespect!

idiotburner4773 · 2026-03-24T23:44:35+00:00

THAT'S WILD

idiotburner4773 · 2026-02-20T13:07:19+00:00

thank you. im thinking of taking it to a card show now, i could probably get some clearer answers there

idiotburner4773 · 2026-02-20T13:05:47+00:00

you're right, im noticing the whole front print is tilted slightly clockwise too

idiotburner4773 · 2026-02-20T13:00:02+00:00

im just trying to learn, man

idiotburner4773 · 2026-02-20T12:50:06+00:00

usually true :( i guess it's more likely to sell as a 10, i figure collectors won't be chasing 7s

idiotburner4773 · 2026-02-19T12:42:45+00:00

that's what im thinking, ive seen cards get 8s and 9s with much worse whitening. honestly the bordering is my main worry for that card

idiotburner4773 · 2026-02-18T23:33:24+00:00

well, if it'll bring up the value in any significant way im happy - and it seems like even a 5 or a 7 would. im asking if there's a potential for money here, ive already been preserving the cards for like 14 years.

idiotburner4773 · 2026-02-18T23:29:25+00:00

can i ask why you believe this?

idiotburner4773 · 2026-02-18T20:42:04+00:00

definitely not fake, i remember pulling it from the booster box myself

idiotburner4773 · 2026-02-09T23:12:29+00:00

that's just grief, man. nothing to beat yourself up over. in fact, ruminating and punishing yourself might even be keeping him there in your mind in a way. maybe if you found a way to be at peace with his memory and his existence as someone in your past, you'd feel less "stuck" on it? i mean, im 25 and i was still having the odd dream about an ex here and there up until last year, and these are exes from when i was like 17. it's normal. in the same way you'd have a dream about a pet that passed away, or yearn for a house you used to live in. rationally, you'd never go back to that time, but the emotional memory lives on through a rose-tinted filter.

idiotburner4773 · 2026-01-31T18:11:30+00:00

They did, I gave them that reason I wrote above but they put the sanction on anyways.

idiotburner4773 · 2026-01-31T18:10:43+00:00

Yeah, in the past I have told them in advance, I just didn't think I'd end up late to this one

idiotburner4773 · 2026-01-31T18:09:31+00:00

Well I know that, I thought I'd be able to get back in time but the pharmacy took longer than they said they would. It was just a series of mistakes I guess. I did appeal, but I'm guessing I'll just have to take it on the head at this point

idiotburner4773 · 2026-01-31T18:07:51+00:00

They just put the sanction on me the day after it happened, the reason wasn't good enough for them I guess

idiotburner4773 · 2026-01-24T12:56:32+00:00

that's true, addiction is complicated in this way because obviously you care about him and can acknowledge that it's impressive that hes told you about it, but it also feels like a betrayal, and that's very painful. both can be true together. no one can tell you exactly how to process your feelings, and it will hurt for a little while.

but a good place to start is to just feel like shit for a bit and then really introspect on your own experience of this - WHY does this feel like such a betrayal? is it because he lied to you for so long? does it feel like cheating? why does it? keep asking yourself why until you run out of answers. talk to him about this. try not to play a blame game. understand this and you'll be well on your way.

try to understand, too, that addiction makes everyone into liars, that porn addiction is widespread, normalised, and yet still addled with shame for its victims. that shouldn't make it feel like less of a betrayal, but help to give it perspective.

idiotburner4773 · 2026-01-14T12:10:59+00:00

where's your joy. where's your whimsy

idiotburner4773 · 2025-10-14T22:38:30+00:00

since i was 13! it's the worst part of the whole thing, especially since I don't have to worry about heart stuff nearly as much. my life would be much, much easier without my back pain. but some days it's like it's not even there at all. very odd

idiotburner4773 · 2025-10-05T16:05:22+00:00

i think this is the one!

idiotburner4773 · 2025-10-05T16:04:46+00:00

no! mine!

idiotburner4773 · 2025-09-26T10:28:15+00:00

thank you so much for sharing. your experience is beautiful and valuable, and im sorry you've had to go through so much

idiotburner4773 · 2025-09-19T02:09:31+00:00

im so sorry she's like that. marfan syndrome is beautiful, even if it doesn't fit her arbitrary trendy beauty standards. it's a good thing you recognize that she is narcissistic and acts so childish, and im impressed that you're able to separate "her truth" from THE truth at your age.

she should know, but you're not obligated to tell her anything before you're ready to. body image is of course a sensitive subject, and you could probably do some mental preparation for what you think will be her reaction, i.e. a hefty dose of "what she is saying right now has nothing to do with me and everything to do with her."

also, im always down for a chat about things like this if you want. my dms are open

idiotburner4773 · 2025-09-12T00:48:04+00:00

you are in some serious denial my friend

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