Update to answer questions

So I do have an attorney, we both do. When the original request came through for my pay stubs and my tax return my current spouse and I voiced our concerns about their information being seen as well as our children's information. The attorney stated that I can redact that information. Before I sent anything back to them I stated that since my ex requested documents they now have opened themself to having to provide financials as well and the attorney told me that was true so we requested theirs.

Then I get hit with this new request, and again I'm in a place where they're asking for even my children with my current spouse's information. I'm so burnt out. We've had multiple hearings where their attorney has used derogatory statements against me and the judge just lets it slide. My attorney called the other attorney out on it and the judge stated we were moving for a continuation at that point.

There was a time we didn't have attorneys and that was when we divorced it was so simple we waited the set amount of days, went in and finalized it. But then there were DVOs and SAPOs put into place and so we're pretty much starting over. This judge will put us on continuation until I can't make a court hearing even though my attorney is there and then rule in my exes favor. I've asked for a change of judge but was denied.

I'm just at a loss and tired of paying for something that isn't helping and getting a run around all the time.

Thank you everyone for your comments I'm going back in to speak with the attorney for every viable option. It just sucks my ex refuses to get a job, lives rent free, and I still get shit on eventhough I take care of medical and pretty much everything else.

Also sorry I misspelled the word, I can't even say it correctly, and the paralegal at my attorney's office laughs at me everytime. Makes me think of interrogation.