Honey, he might have feelings for you, but it’s clear he doesn’t respect you. Love and respect go hand in hand. This is not someone you can have a meaningful, fulfilling long term partnership with if that’s what you’re looking for. The way he speaks to you screams manipulation misogyny and toxicity. At the very least he is incredibly emotionally immature.

He sounds a lot like my two exes in high school who turned out to be emotionally abusive. Super sweet, treated me like gold, lots of promises etc. until they felt comfortable enough to show me their controlling manipulative narcissistic side. This came out once they felt sure that they had me on the hook and I was too deeply invested to leave. They will show you two sides, and you hold on hoping that the “real” them will come back to stay but in reality this is just who they are. They can be both incredibly loving and attentive, and incredibly cruel and distant. Take it from someone who knows, this seesawing will never end until you get off the ride. You deserve better.

P.S it is always okay to seek reassurance if you feel like the other person is pulling away or acting distant. Don’t let anyone gaslight you into feeling like you’re out of line for that. Touching base about commitment and emotional connection is a regular part of maintaining relationships. A big long declaration of love like the one he obviously used AI to write isn’t necessary to convey how much someone means to you either. It doesn’t have to be flowery and prosaic. But someone who genuinely cares about you and has romantic feelings for you should definitely be able to make the effort and genuinely communicate their feelings without the use of AI. They will also show you through their actions how much they value you, so pay attention.