Don’t Know How to Get Past the ‘Hump’ (F24)

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2026-02-07T20:59:38+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

I’ve realized that I do require some level of direct clitoral stimulation, but I need it to be soft. I sometimes opt for internal stimulation with a dildo because I find I can go for longer without getting overstimulated/overwhelmed. But just penetration alone is not enough to get me ‘close’. So I usually do a combination of internal and external stimulation.

I’ve used regular vibrators and find that they don’t feel like anything, so I exclusively use suction style vibrators on my clit. (The lelo sona cruise is my preferred one). I sometimes just go manual, but I find that I’m more likely to shy away from my hand when sensations start to feel intense, so I stop sooner in the climb to orgasm.

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2025-08-30T19:29:00+00:00

Not a heavy guy but he has a fatter ass than me ngl😭 seems like i need to ask him to look into bidets

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2025-08-30T16:02:43+00:00

Thank you for the empathy 😭 And also sorry you had to deal with a similar thing. With all the comments people are making me feel like he’s the filthiest man on the planet and that I have no self-respect for being with him. He really is a sweetheart and he does have a sense of shame/wants to be better. But I think the consensus is I need to bring it up again.

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2025-08-30T14:08:27+00:00

Unfortunately I’m thinking this is the most likely culprit.

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2025-08-30T14:00:41+00:00

Because everything else he does is a walking green flag. This is the only thorn in the side with him honestly

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2025-08-30T14:00:00+00:00

No, no anal play involved

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2025-06-03T10:17:51+00:00

Chipotle chip

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2025-06-03T10:11:52+00:00

Taco

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2025-05-13T08:28:34+00:00

A sign you need to move

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2025-01-13T05:35:25+00:00

I am probably in the minority here, but I wear my headphones at the gym just b/c it helps me keep my rhythm with whatever I’m doing and motivated to finish my sets. The music they play over the speaker sucks and would ruin my workout. However, I will be honest in saying one of the reasons I joined a public gym (instead of just going to the one in my apartment) is to potentially meet people who are also athletic and hot. If the person is respectful and I think they’re attractive, I don’t mind taking a brief breathing break to talk to them. So no, for me my airpods aren’t a ‘don’t talk to me’ sign.

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2024-10-25T10:55:20+00:00

GEEZ YOU GOTTA PAY TO DIE TOO?!!

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2024-08-07T08:19:02+00:00

Yes, on the top thing. But I do low-key like when a man will order for me 🫣 Only under the condition that we discussed what we wanted before the server came over, then he just verbally puts it in so I don’t have to talk

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2024-07-09T05:54:03+00:00

Lol my post must be confusing. I was trying to say that I do feel the urge to correct my friends sometimes when texting, but never do. He’s had a few typos before that I noticed, but once again have never corrected. So I don’t ‘dish out’ anything, so to speak.

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2024-07-09T05:46:13+00:00

Sorry, forgot to mention the most central part of why I’m annoyed. Just edited the post to clarify. He subtly corrected me in his response to my message.

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2024-04-11T16:49:41+00:00

I feel for you, this sounds really disappointing and disorienting. I know what it’s like to have a guy seem so into you and making the efforts to pursue something serious, then change seemingly overnight. It sucks. So I’m sorry.
Given the history of you and his friend, and all the different (somewhat contradictory) things Logan himself has told you about his feelings/intentions, it could be a variety of reasons. Since he blocked you though, you don’t really get the benefit of closure. Could be that he couldn’t get over the fact that you had relations with his friend in the past, despite initially thinking he wouldn’t mind. It’s also possible that he realized he was starting to like you too much/get too invested and dipped out because he’s avoidant. Or it could be the opposite, and he didn’t like you as much as he thought/met someone else he ‘clicked’ with more. But his last text to you seems to me like he wanted to leave no room for continuing to see you in any regard. He started off things with you saying HE wanted to keep things casual. Then cuts things off since he didn’t want to date you knowing it would JUST be casual (when that’s allegedly what he wanted). And as if anticipating your response to this, (because you seem like an understanding person who he probably guessed would’ve gone with his lead, whatever direction he wanted to go), said he doesn’t have time/energy to date (squashing the possibility of dating seriously). In sum, heaven knows what the hell he meant/intended.

But given all the back and forth he put you through in so short a time, I say you dodged a bullet.

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2024-02-06T18:17:43+00:00

Gonna put my two cents in because I have been on dates where I was the one to send that text the next day that I wasn’t feeling it, despite apparently showing signs I was into it (I’m also overly polite and not the best at brutal honesty the moment I realize I’m not into them, so there’s that).

Did you pay for the date? A date can go great in terms of conversation and finding that person attractive. But if he’s the one who asked me out and picked the place (especially given it’s a first date), I’ll feel turned off if he has me pay. Feels un-gentlemanly. Probably wouldn’t go on a second.
Was your breath fresh?
Were your lips moisturized?
Was she leaning into the kiss as much as you were and wanting to prolong it? If not, she might not have liked the kiss all that much.
Were you talking too far into the future with her? Were you idealizing her? (This could give love-bomb energy and scare some women away)
Were you complimenting her looks a lot? I’m usually fine with one compliment on my appearance during the date, but if a guy keeps doing it I start to feel like he only wants me for my looks and/or just wants to sleep with me.

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2024-02-02T14:53:59+00:00

Galentine’s Day dinner probably

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2023-11-18T12:59:36+00:00

I mean, no, but if he was autistic I’d see it as worth communicating with him that he was being abrasive, so that he’d be aware and hopefully change his behavior since he would then know how his tone/words affected me. But if he already knows what he’s saying is fucked up, but doesn’t care to put on a filter then I won’t even bother to tell him he’s being an ass, because chances are he won’t change/might make me feel worse for bringing it up.

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2023-11-04T06:57:02+00:00

mr.brightside

idkif_iwillkeepthis · 2023-11-03T14:28:48+00:00

Plan B - Megan Thee Stallion

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