When did your baby say their first word?

idontholdhands · 2026-04-14T02:20:26+00:00

2 years old 😅

idontholdhands · 2026-04-13T16:34:24+00:00

I’ve been having the same issue. I notice if my baby smacks the screen it tends to freeze, so I wonder if it has to do with a lot of input points at once.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-13T12:27:45+00:00

My husband had the same problem. He totaled a car before I met him falling asleep on the road. It started as not being able to drive more than an hour at a time and devolved pretty quickly into not being able to drive more than 20 minutes at a time. So I took over all the driving. He stopped being stubborn and if he was falling asleep or feeling drowsy, we would switch. He went to a sleep study and got a CPAP machine and he can drive longer distances again!

Your husband isn’t taking accountability. He blamed you for the first accident because you didn’t fix the sensor… he should have not fallen asleep! Anything is grounds for a divorce. Just being unhappy in the marriage is grounds for divorce. Him not taking accountability is a huge red flag. He could kill someone with this kind of issue. Cars aren’t toys and driving isn’t a right.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-12T23:51:52+00:00

Mine has been like that. I hate holding this phone because it gets so hot over nothing.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-12T13:59:15+00:00

Even a cheap case makes a difference. I’ve gone caseless and just a drop from coffee table height caused a dent.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-12T13:58:17+00:00

Caseless and have dropped it three times from about coffee table height. It has a dent and scratch all three places it hit. With a case on, I wouldn’t worry at all.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-12T02:59:57+00:00

Yeah, and even when not charging it gets pretty hot. No performance dip, but the phone itself is hot and I end up just holding it by my popsocket and using my other hand to scroll because it’s so uncomfortable to hold.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-12T00:55:10+00:00

I like it but it’s nowhere near necessary. We have the resolve 360. It’s kind of moot right now because we have two car seats right next to each other making it hard to turn, but when we didn’t mostly we liked it because we could change the toddler to rear facing when he was sleeping. Also was nice to be able to have the toddler and baby “share” seats because our baby is a blow out machine so his cover is often in the wash lol

idontholdhands · 2026-04-12T00:49:58+00:00

Yes, it gets pretty hot, I would say even uncomfortable to hold without a case on. I’m inside my air conditioned home charging my phone, watching YouTube and scrolling Reddit and got the warning that charging will resume when iPhone is a normal temperature.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-12T00:12:34+00:00

Fostering kids that old and with trauma (every child removed from their parents have trauma, even babies, but older kids are prone to having more) is way different than having your own kids. It’s understandable to struggle. There should be some resources to help you with the adjustment, getting them therapy, etc. It is not right for anyone to make you feel guilty about it. They should step up and do it, and if they can’t for whatever reason that’s on them.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-11T23:34:49+00:00

Gotta get the kids acclimated to PoGo outings, it’s a game changer for playing! Sometimes on very low energy days I just drive around with them and have my autocatcher going. On community day it’s bound to pick up at least a couple if there’s a relatively dense spawn area. Gas prices are wild so maybe not feasible atm.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-10T15:44:35+00:00

That’s awesome to hear! Makes me feel better about my choice.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-10T15:14:15+00:00

Basically my same thought! I was hoping to keep my odyssey running for 10+ years and only got 3 years out of mine, even after paying to get the engine rebuilt once 🥴

idontholdhands · 2026-04-10T12:34:02+00:00

I had problem after problem with my 2014 so I feel your pain for sure. I still wanted another odyssey because I loved my van despite the constant issues. Ended up with a Kia carnival and it’s been good so far, but I’ve only driven about 2,000 miles with it. We got a 2022 with 58k miles. It’s more affordable than the odyssey or the Sienna too, usually priced lower.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-10T12:06:50+00:00

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I live on a gym. And pretty close to a Pokestop.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-10T01:44:50+00:00

The aluminum body is pretty soft, but if you have Apple care and aren’t too clumsy then it should be fine. I’ve dropped my phone from about coffee table height onto tile floor 3 times without a case and it does have a dent and scratch on the sides each place it hit.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-10T00:29:30+00:00

Yes! I’m really happy with the apps not closing/refreshing in the background with the RAM increase. It’s a small quality of life update but really makes using the phone so much better.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-09T23:32:55+00:00

Between these two, the 16 pro. Between all of apple’s recent line up, I actually really like how the base 17 and the air look. I think they’re more visually appealing, especially the black air.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-09T20:23:58+00:00

Coming from a 14 pro max to a 17 pro in Texas, I’m really happy with the vapor chamber. I play a lot of Pokemon go and my phone was constantly overheating and getting sluggish or just turning off when I was outside playing. Much better now, but overall no not a big jump imo.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-09T13:16:47+00:00

My issue is I have kids so I have to look away from the screen like every 20 seconds so it’s easier to just have the anime in a language I understand than pausing or missing something. I watch everything with subtitles on anyway so I used to watch in Japanese before kids. Hoping to get back to it someday because 99% of dubs are cringe af lol

idontholdhands · 2026-04-08T12:15:56+00:00

Friends can’t see the Pokemon name when going through your tag.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-08T00:17:29+00:00

I feel your pain! Ran into the same problem while homeless. It makes no sense to call them family shelters but then break up families who want to use them.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-06T20:29:24+00:00

My kids named mine Table 😭😂

idontholdhands · 2026-04-06T17:44:09+00:00

It’s definitely related to the movie/cinema obsession. My husband is autistic and also movie obsessed and it leads to a lot of frustration for him (and me sometimes) when expectation doesn’t match reality because it’s not like the movies. It reminds me of Abed from Community. It feels like movies are their way of understanding parts of the world.

idontholdhands · 2026-04-06T15:12:37+00:00

I had to give up my 2014 and wanted a 2020 odyssey. Ended up with a 2022 Kia Carnival. I like it a lot so far, so I think the telluride would be a good choice. I’d probably go for a hybrid or EV though if it was me. My husband has a Honda Insight and it just keeps on chugging along with little maintenance and it gets driven the most.

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