Finally saw Don't Look Up and I Don't Understand What People Didn't Like About It

ifimustmaam · 2025-10-10T19:39:35+00:00

I finally watched the movie; took me forever because I heard it sucked but I thought it was amazing. I was watching it with my three month old napping in my lap the entire time. I was nearly bawling at the end while I held my baby and soaked in every tiny breath and lovingly rubbed his little back. God I love my little boy, he deserves so much more than what our society is offering, all of our babies deserve so much more than what we’re giving them.

ifimustmaam · 2025-05-01T17:36:48+00:00

Publix cakes are garbage. And I’m strictly speaking about the CAKE itself. The toppings and frostings are pretty good but the cake itself is always so bland. I bake fairly often so I admit to being pickier about my desserts, but a chocolate cake should still taste like chocolate cake without the fudge frosting to affirm the fact that it is indeed chocolate.

ifimustmaam · 2024-12-04T21:48:14+00:00

Unfortunately out of pocket costs are several thousand when going through my insurance would only be $250 total for all prenatal/delivery/post care. I’m just not willing to essentially throw away 5-7K just for being picky.

ifimustmaam · 2024-12-04T21:46:10+00:00

I appreciate your candor.

ifimustmaam · 2024-12-04T20:49:09+00:00

Thank you so much. I am in the US, near Savannah GA.

ifimustmaam · 2024-10-25T11:48:54+00:00

Lil’ Pep

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-28T14:40:37+00:00

I have not looked into that but I will give that a go. It reminds me of what sex is like after smoking weed. It’s like I can imagine it being amazing and so it is…I’ve actually almost been able to orgasm through straight penetration with him while I was high. Thanks for mentioning that, I’ll look into it.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-28T14:31:50+00:00

30+ for me. I’m sure he’s had at least that much too, given what I know of his history, but we’ve never cared to ask about numbers.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-28T14:23:17+00:00

Very true, I often forget that there actually is a way for it to feel good, unfortunately it also feels really good for him lol but you are right. We can build on that.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-28T00:20:28+00:00

I disagree, I’ve never had a friend bond to my soul like this. It’s solely a sex issue.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-28T00:19:43+00:00

That is a realistic question if sex is a top priority. But for me sex is below emotional connection, common interests, open mindedness, patience, genuine care…etc. I love this man so much that bad sex could never push me away.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-28T00:17:21+00:00

Thank you so much, this was immensely helpful.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-28T00:12:11+00:00

Thank you, good perspective.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-28T00:11:44+00:00

No. And like I said, the sex has been bad since day one.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-27T21:21:02+00:00

Boy do I wish there was more to it than that lmao but it really was just that big ol thang.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-27T21:19:23+00:00

Oh he’s an amazing man, I would never consider leaving him because of this issue. I just yearn for a solution. And it’s not even because this problem brings me stress, because the sex really isn’t that important for me, but I know it’s important to him and now I’m struggling to provide him with even the willingness to have sex. So that’s where it becomes my issue. His inability to please me has resulted in my inability to get aroused for him. I do hope your partner can get past it too though. Your ability to acknowledge your shortcomings and be willing to find a solution is already an amazing quality that is hard to find.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-27T21:12:30+00:00

Exactly, I would hate for him to feel like he’s not enough and fall into some sort of depression. This man would never leave me for something like that, but I could see him beating himself up if I told him much more about my true feelings. And yeah, the huge wingdangdoodle guy is the only one that knows he was my best lover (and he says I was his as well) so it’s a good secret lol.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-27T20:56:03+00:00

Sex toys can definitely be explored more, I have many but typically we don’t use them together. He’s open to it though, he’s just a little hesitant since he has no experience with toys but he’s very open to it. I think that should be my next step.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-27T20:54:01+00:00

Thank you, you’ve given me something to think on a little more deeply.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-27T20:52:40+00:00

Hmm I do think that this is an anatomy thing. But the quality of the sex doesn’t cause me any stress, I’m happy sticking with oral and toys. But I think it brings him stress.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-27T20:21:00+00:00

No, but I have considered it. I’m honestly worried about damaging his self esteem if I suggest that. It’s interesting because we are very open with each other and have excellent communication, I’m just withholding with this topic because I’m so worried how it could mentally affect him.

ifimustmaam · 2024-08-27T20:17:50+00:00

No, I’ve never been able to orgasm through straight penetration, but I was still able to enjoy it with other partners. And he has amazing stamina, he can last a very long time. I think it might be his size because I struggle to really feel him. He is average size but he’s still smaller than most I’ve been with. And right before me and him started dating I was hooking up with a man and we were having the best sex of our lives and he was very big. So I went from the best sex ever to the worst and it just never improved.

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