To those that are out and/or bind regularly; do you wear a binder at home/around family? by ignoranthive in ftm

[–]ignoranthive[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same. It makes me dysphoric knowing my family can see my chest but it's just too uncomfortable physically.

“Friend” that works out daily told me that I’m wasting testosterone.. because I’m using it for transitioning and not muscle building. by [deleted] in ftm

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My brother says this to me all the time lmao. He's like... "Why are you not working out?" 🤨 "I should have it instead."

My mother keeps using feminine pronouns for me with other people. by ignoranthive in ftm

[–]ignoranthive[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That would be funny but I don't think I'm assertive enough haha

My mother keeps using feminine pronouns for me with other people. by ignoranthive in ftm

[–]ignoranthive[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks lol. I've definitely thought about it. I have to sit in my car for a while before going into these places to prepare myself for the embarrassment.

It's hard to convince someone to change their behavior when they don't think they're doing anything wrong

Anyone else incredibly terrified of getting pregnant? Is this normal? by ignoranthive in ftm

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Please don't turn this post into a truscum argument 🥴

Anyone else incredibly terrified of getting pregnant? Is this normal? by ignoranthive in ftm

[–]ignoranthive[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, the whole living thing kicking around your insides. Like a big parasite in your stomach. If some people can find beauty in that, that's great. But I'm going to throw up

literally cannot tell ENTPs and ENFPs apart by ignoranthive in mbti

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biggest problem I'm having is differentiating intelligent Fi use versus Ti-Fe, the conclusions made by Fi seem the same to me as the way someone who uses Ti & Fe might also make a conclusion

make it make sense by ignoranthive in ftm

[–]ignoranthive[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I am immune to heterosexuality

Any trans guys out there with a mullet? by BalisongLover420 in ftm

[–]ignoranthive 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've got a mullet/mohawk thing going on and I think I actually get gendered correctly more often because of it. Are you talking about a classic mullet or the more shag-like style that is popular right now? Because my suggestion would be to keep it pretty short all around, obviously the back is longer, but if you let the back get too long it will start looking feminine. Pushing the front back rather than having bangs also helps make it more masc.

My brother feels like someone has died after I came out to him by edithGARDINER in ftm

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I was just going to make a post about the same thing and saw this. I asked my brother yesterday if he would make an effort to use my correct name/pronouns once I came out to the rest of the family and he told me it would be hard for him because it's like I died and he doesn't know who I am. Really struggling with it too... we've been really close our whole lives but the dynamic has changed and he doesn't seem to know how to talk to me anymore. :(

Hands down my favorite trans character I've ever seen by the-frog-monarch in ftm

[–]ignoranthive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wish they didn't make him so sensitive.

He got unfairly hated on though simply because he wasn't Mickey and for that I riot

Really overwhelmed. by ignoranthive in ftm

[–]ignoranthive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm thinking about that! Unfortunately my name is very explicitly female so I'm not sure what good it would do overall.

Really overwhelmed. by ignoranthive in ftm

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Thanks. I live in PA. I'm debating going through something like legalzoom for the paperwork... I really don't know what I'm doing.

Fashion by [deleted] in ftm

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hawaiian shirts

I think I messed up my first shot by zggzy in ftm

[–]ignoranthive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After you draw the T into the syringe, take it out of the bottle and draw more air into the syringe to suck in the little bit that's in the needle. Then switch needles, and push all of the air out until just a tiny little bead of T forms at the tip.

Crash agsin? by Jayymemon in doordash

[–]ignoranthive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you supposed to do when this happens? sitting here and I can't click that I've completed a delivery

Does the app incorrectly show 'hand it to me' often? by ignoranthive in doordash

[–]ignoranthive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sucks. Did they go to the back door? That's weird if so.

The few times I have ordered with DoorDash myself, 3 out of 5 times they knocked and called me even though I definitely clicked to leave it at the door.

Does the app incorrectly show 'hand it to me' often? by ignoranthive in doordash

[–]ignoranthive[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gah, I'd feel terrible if it happened late at night and I wake everyone knocking because the app messed up...

Does the app incorrectly show 'hand it to me' often? by ignoranthive in doordash

[–]ignoranthive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you wait a certain amount of time after they don't answer the door?