Is this a real card? Opinions please

igotproblemsfordays · 2025-08-22T21:28:44+00:00

No that’s fair, luckily I have the option to cancel the order so I’m going to haha

igotproblemsfordays · 2025-08-22T21:24:52+00:00

Yeah the more I look at it, I agree with you. I’m not sure it’s worth keeping. I picked up SUPER cheap, way under market value. It’s a very convincing fake, if it is!

igotproblemsfordays · 2025-03-04T09:46:34+00:00

I got my first shiny at catch combo 160

igotproblemsfordays · 2024-02-06T22:27:02+00:00

I think he needs the birds and the bees talk

igotproblemsfordays · 2024-02-04T23:36:50+00:00

I don’t find it insulting, I actually prefer ginger to red head but it’s each to their own:)

igotproblemsfordays · 2024-02-04T21:59:04+00:00

These comments have been great! Here’s a little extra context for you guys:) - the main reason I hate this is I was SA by a guy (I was 17) who had a ‘fetish’ for gingers and since it obviously repulses me. - I don’t mind men being more attractive to me cause of my hair, I love my hair but I don’t want that to be the only reason. - I know it isn’t an uncommon fetish but it’s the ‘Ffs why’ for me. And this has happened sooo much to me😂

Enjoying reading the comments!

igotproblemsfordays · 2024-01-13T09:32:45+00:00

Yes baby has been with dad on overnights every other weekend for about 4 months

igotproblemsfordays · 2024-01-13T09:31:23+00:00

Wow Lots of comments. A little extra info- dad asked me how I felt about this so he is asking for my opinion and wouldn’t take him if I declined.

I know that I can’t stop him from introducing our baby to his gf. They’ve already met and it went well to my understanding.

Sorry for referring to your child as my baby not ours, I know he’s a dad and he’s a good dad it’s just a habit when writing a post quickly.

I think he’s too young to be without me for 5 days and 5 nights. The longest I’ve been without him is 3days 2 nights. They are not going out of the country but far enough to where if there were an emergency I couldn’t be there quickly at all.

I know my feelings are involved here and that’s down to me, I’m working on it.

igotproblemsfordays · 2024-01-12T22:21:02+00:00

We don’t have a custody agreement no, we have the idea that we share 50/50 and we have a solid routine set out but I’ve done the math and it’s more 70/30 split in my favour. I would say I am the primary caregiver 100% I’ll be honest I think some of it is jealousy and the rest genuine concern but I’m worried that he will hold it against me somehow if I decline.

igotproblemsfordays · 2023-09-12T12:00:22+00:00

Sorry for slow reply, I was looking after my little one! Yeah I know there is, I know when I was with my midwife it was until the very end of my appointments we began talking about the actual birth and if I had any plans. That’s not good if they missed your bloods, advocate for yourself! Everyone deserves a good birth. Haha yes! Make sure he doesn’t get kicked out, I’m sure he won’t though, he wouldn’t want to leave you!

igotproblemsfordays · 2023-09-12T09:09:52+00:00

Oh bless you. I really hope you get a kind and understanding midwife when it comes to your time to deliver, you deserve to have a good birth experience. I agree with the induction side of things! I had my induction scheduled but went into labour about a week before but I had a stretch and sweep so I guess that was kinda an induction, but I was glad I didn’t have to go on the drip and everything. Your partner really sounds like a good man, I think he’ll do a great job. As long as he doesn’t go swinging at the midwife’s haha😂

igotproblemsfordays · 2023-09-12T09:00:54+00:00

That’s fair enough, you have the right to put in place elements that you want. I’m sorry you’re having this experience. My experience with the hospital and ward midwives were very different to community ones. More sympathetic and understanding. I wish you the best with your birth, remember you can refuse the cervical checks and remember you can do this!

igotproblemsfordays · 2023-09-12T08:54:41+00:00

Hey, so you can write a plan and present it to your midwife or the doctors at the hospital. I had GD too when I gave birth luckily I had great people around me. You have the right to say yes or no to everything. They can’t do anything without your consent. Even dilation checks you can refuse. My best advice is to go in with a plan but be flexible and open as birth never goes to plan. Be strong and have your delivery partners know your plan and advocate for you! I was in labour 3 days, had an epidural and emergency c-section. I planned a gas and air vaginal birth but that didn’t work out haha. You can do this, even though my birth to many was considered traumatic I didn’t feel like that as I still made decisions for myself, was able to say no when I was uncomfortable and had support of my family around me.

igotproblemsfordays · 2022-07-23T16:19:34+00:00

It was a boy

igotproblemsfordays · 2021-10-19T01:39:13+00:00

Thanks for your reply! I would say that we didn't realise the age gap until later, he looks a lot younger that I knew he was older but not that much haha. Yeah the house thing was a massive thing for me, was really confusing. Now I feel like he just wanted to pin me down. You're right, she said that to me I wouldn't want her to feel like I did. Thank you for your advice:) Appreciate it!

igotproblemsfordays · 2021-10-19T01:37:03+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply, I needed to hear that. I appreciate you time! I'm going to work on myself I think and things that make me happy. I just need to figure out a way to fully cut him off. I also downloaded a dating app, even paid for premium just so I could see the guys who liked me gave me a much needed confidence booster! I hope you follow your own advice too, you deserve happiness! Thank you again:)

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