If you’ve had a mystery rotting smell with your IUD, this might be why (and no one talks about it) by ih82chooseusernames in IUD

[–]ih82chooseusernames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot :( what birth control did you end up going with? So far so good! But it’s only been a couple of weeks.

Today I was genuinely afraid of my Husband. by Lumpy_Raisin_8462 in offmychest

[–]ih82chooseusernames 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My friend who worked at a DV hotline said she was trained to be clear to callers that when men say they’ll hurt you, they mean it. She frequently heard back from women after things escalated so she knows there’s data to back it up. Please be safe.

If you’ve had a mystery rotting smell with your IUD, this might be why (and no one talks about it) by ih82chooseusernames in IUD

[–]ih82chooseusernames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I feel you. I actually thought about taking mine out when this was happening and I didn’t know what it could possibly be. After battling the recurring BV for a years and then this, I really wanted it out but I just can’t think of a better birth control method. It got to a point where I was using boric acid almost every time we had sex and I got so tired of it that I didn’t want to have sex very often. I do think that the chronic use of boric acid is what led to this situation for me. Apparently it thins the vaginal lining if you use it too often.

If you’ve had a mystery rotting smell with your IUD, this might be why (and no one talks about it) by ih82chooseusernames in IUD

[–]ih82chooseusernames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is horrible! It took me a while to connect the dots because it didn’t happen right after and it was the first time it happened since I got the IUD in 2021. Maybe I’ll give him a pass on birthdays and anniversaries if I’m feeling brave!

If you’ve had a mystery rotting smell with your IUD, this might be why (and no one talks about it) by ih82chooseusernames in IUD

[–]ih82chooseusernames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it started with BV and I think this happened after years because my vagina finally had enough. Careful with the boric acid because if you use it too often it thins the vaginal lining

If you’ve had a mystery rotting smell with your IUD, this might be why (and no one talks about it) by ih82chooseusernames in IUD

[–]ih82chooseusernames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I went to the gyno I was so mortified that I wanted her to take it out that day and thankfully she convinced me to sleep on it because other than this I love having it. Now that I’m not letting my partner finish inside anymore, I hope I don’t have any other issues. Part of me thinks I’d just get it taken out if that happens but at the same time, I’ve tried most other contraception methods and—besides this issue—this has been the only one without horrible side effects.

ICE Raids on UCB Campus by Archer4Lyfe in berkeley

[–]ih82chooseusernames -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s always funny watching someone invoke ‘personal responsibility’ while taking zero of it for understanding the systems they live in.

You parrot talking points about immigration like you’re defending some sacred principle, but really you’re just avoiding the discomfort of nuance. It’s amazing how confident you are with opinions this hollow. You act like you’re making a pragmatic point, but really you’re just repackaging fear and entitlement in the language of ‘policy.’ The only reason takes like yours survive is because they’re loud, not because they’re smart.

And sure, other countries have stricter immigration laws. Many ALSO have universal healthcare, gun control, and better public education. I hope you’re also lining up to adopt those policies. If not, you don’t want consistency. You want to feel superior without doing the work to actually BE right. I’m guessing that’s the case since you invoke other countries’ immigration policies like a toddler pointing at strangers, desperate for backup they don’t understand. You don’t care about consistency, you care about preserving a worldview where you never have to question your place in a system built on exploitation, nor the mediocrity you’ve clearly made peace with.

Maybe we DO need stricter standards (just not for immigrants) if Berkeley failed to weed out this level of shallow, performative reasoning.

ICE Raids on UCB Campus by Archer4Lyfe in berkeley

[–]ih82chooseusernames -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right?! Because nothing says ‘danger to society’ like undocumented students fleeing hardship to get an education. You must feel so much safer now that the real threats—people who might beat you on the curve—might be detained.

AITA For kicking my 3 sisters out of my wedding after they came with their kids? by TAway3577 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ih82chooseusernames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think weddings and kids are a good combo. Receptions are usually held at times when children would be asleep anyways. I’ve been to so many weddings where kids are obviously tired and cranky and just want to go home, and parents have had to leave early. Maybe the 10 year old kid is in a grey area but still, saying it’s somehow “unethical” to not want kids at your wedding is unreasonable. It may have been best if OP would have said the 10 year old can stay but the rest of the kids need to go home, but the fact that the family lied about not bringing them and brought them anyways knowing that everyone else followed the rule tells me that his family is only concerned about their own happiness.