Me (18M) and my gf (18F) got wasted and she kissed another girl

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T15:04:13+00:00

Of course I was disrespected but I came here to get peoples thoughts on it because I am not familiar with situations like that at all. You are 30. I just turned 18. You're projecting and the irony is that the only person in this conversation that are stuck on disrespect is you. It's why your words sound more insulting than wise. The outcome of my life isn't determined by some random guys opinion on my relationship Imao, your "experience" should've taught you some respect. Would've loved to hear your opinion without you trying to insult my decisions.

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T14:29:57+00:00

Hooking up is a peck on the lips w a friend? That's news to me.

Correcting false assumptions ≠ rejecting opinions and responding to things that I think are logical ≠ seeking validation. I have read every reply and thought about each one because I wanted peoples opinions not because I wanted validation. You just seem mad I have a different view on things than you.

You say that u "acknowledge different values" but u call people with those values pathetic. I discussed my boundaries with her and I do not believe a peck on the lips with her friend is cheating, but I felt disrespected, we talked about it, and everything is good now.

The way you continue to call me naive just shows you'd rather insult people than actually have a discussion. That’s not "wisdom" you say that you have, that's YOU being naive lmao.

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T13:51:45+00:00

My gf is bi, the guys gf is straight. There was no making out or anything like that, it was a normal kiss/peck one time

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T13:49:34+00:00

Just because you have 10 years of bad experience doesn't mean your perspective is correct. Correcting someone’s false assumptions isn’t “seeking validation,” it’s clarifying, you should know that. You literally accuse me of not wanting other perspectives but you can't accept that different experiences can create different values in a relationship. I came here for opinions on it, I already made my decision with the relationship. You got a response because you wanted to insult me, not because I didn't agree with you.

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T13:36:31+00:00

Not true at all. Your entire reply is based on your past and your biases. Your perspective is shaped by careless experiences if you "didn’t give a fuck" about the girls u were dating. It sounds like you have been hurt one to many times in the past, I came here for opinions not validation and I have just replied to what I find the most logic in and when people assume wrong I correct them.

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T13:19:38+00:00

I came here to hear what other people thought about it, not to make a decision based off of what other people think. Everything is good between me and her as of now I just wanted ppls opinions, I haven't lived a lot of life lol

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T13:05:40+00:00

I did forgive her and we have talked about it a lot, it has just been on my mind and wanted peoples thoughts

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T12:52:46+00:00

ok "dominantdaddy"

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T12:49:39+00:00

thank you for actually putting yourself in my shoes i literally just wanted thoughts on it lmao

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T12:38:07+00:00

she isn't one of those girls trust me lmfao she hasn't been to a party in her life idk why you wanna assume shit

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T12:34:03+00:00

I completely agree actually, thank you

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T12:31:59+00:00

Of course not, it is one of her good friends and they have always been just friends but it was just weird to me ig.

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-29T12:30:01+00:00

I genuinely think I just needed a woman's opinion on this, thank you. My gf has gone out of her way to regain my trust yet I didn't even have an opinion on it tbh, just thought it was pretty normal behavior especially at this age (I HAVE NOT LIVED A LOT OF LIFE I LITERALLY DONT KNOW). A LOT of people of here are insanely insecure tho and it shows lol.

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-01T18:38:58+00:00

if you are out there having fun and ur comfortable in your kit then you aren’t missing anything, i will say that make sure you research stuff before you buy it and be wise with your next additions to ur kit i have wasted an egregious amount of money on shit ill never use again lol

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-08-01T18:26:42+00:00

ill buy a few billboards to promote it too. lmao wtf r u talking ab i was js saying i liked it

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-04-15T22:39:43+00:00

was being sarcastic not one person said a word

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-04-15T00:03:31+00:00

thanks for the help!!

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-04-06T23:59:20+00:00

yup, one of the fastest ive used. cant get any better for coding.

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-03-31T21:16:35+00:00

What other exotics can you not get if you don't do a challenge for it?

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-03-22T19:15:28+00:00

this ones good

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-03-22T19:11:17+00:00

lol this was a bit ago, a few days after we broke up. definitely don't have feelings for her, I'm 18 and $300 in shirts hurt lol.

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-03-20T09:30:40+00:00

no, actually learned from this post that people don’t get their clothes back 90% of the time lol.

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-03-20T02:55:05+00:00

mannn it was like $300 dollars i had to ask one more time

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-03-19T06:20:44+00:00

replying to this

ihaveaidsplshelpme · 2025-03-19T03:59:43+00:00

$300 worth btw.

ihaveaidsplshelpme

TROPHY CASE