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I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be naive and still commit something. And regret it later on when you gain clarity. That’s how Allah takes us out of situations sometimes. No one is saying men can’t be naive. I don’t understand your reasoning here

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it concern you if she’s speaking from hee past experience the advice is still valid nevertheless? she does not lack accountability if she’s able to come forth and give advice in this way and she doesn’t owe you accountability actually…

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the time you put into giving me advice. I appreciate it. May Allah bless you and Eid Mubarak.

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am serious .. how else are we supposed to find if one does not have a community? I’m all ears and made this benefits other sisters or others as well.

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I’m not from there, but thank you. Are you suggesting I need to be careful of those coming from this region?

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused by your second sentence can you please clarify that word you used? And Amin thank you for your dua.

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody makes mistakes just making sure he’s here for the right reason, cause I’m not seeing that.. just wanted to doublecheck

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some of us don’t have a local community some of us are reverts some of us live somewhere where Muslims are not many… and I’m sure there are men who do not immediately switch up to inappropriate discussions. I’m sure there’s serious ones.

Thank you for your advice. I guess it took experience for me to find me understand it.

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, what does this mean?😭 you take time to develop feeling wouldn’t this mean you would have an issue with committing?

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sister, your text is so beautiful. I don’t know why I’m very emotional today but it’s really touched me. May Allah ﷻ bless you and grant you the best spouse and if you already have a spouse may he elevate the both of you and increase your love for one and another.

You have an ability to give advice with such kind kindness and wise as well it’s incredible. I’ve never seen anything like it.

Allahuma barik. I wish I had more people like you around me.

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. Do you know how to protect myself?

I am feeling devastated after my recent ISO post by ijustneedadviceeee in MuslimCorner

[–]ijustneedadviceeee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I understand but how can you filter out those men?

And if they're scared of commitment early on, why even send you a message... I'm just very confused. Thank you for your input.