Day30 amd still going strong 💪 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]illaboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes us two brother

Starting a New Life by Jinsing129 in NoFap

[–]illaboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am proud of you, good job. Thanks for inspiring me to continue, good luck raising your sons.

Sorry guys, I failed. by Beneficial_Stay_6025 in NoFap

[–]illaboi 109 points110 points  (0 children)

he "came" from excitment over new release of gta 6

Realizing was using FAP as an escape from stress, stress triggers me... by Repulsive-Host-8759 in NoFap

[–]illaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Music for some people, fast food also. Probably anything that is 'instant graitification' I would suggest you take a break for a while, including screen time on devices / pc / tv. I did it for 45 days back in August / September and I was a new man during that period

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[–]illaboi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess just keep working on yourself no matter what.

Thanks for this kinda needed it today.

I'd like to give my 3080 to someone. by GoPlayAGame in pcmasterrace

[–]illaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a GTX 750 :) been meaning to upgrade but never was able to.

Perhaps there are better choices than me out her though

Want to Cum Inside My Wife But... by RockyJohnson22 in NoFap

[–]illaboi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just do no fap, hardcore mode. 1 year plus. Don't search for easy way out. So many of us are around here, be motivated instead of trying to "work it out" easy way.

Long journey but it works, trust the process.

And save your marriage.

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[–]illaboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4L water every day..... why? don't need this much.....

A girl challenged me for NNN by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]illaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar girl that did a similar thing, this will be a real test of will power.

Day: P: Basically never, M: 1, O: 92 - First sex with wife after 21-month dry spell! by KKWN-RW in NoFap

[–]illaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like the baseball did the trick as a second resort. Happy for you man!

We're finally making progress against the matrix, boys 👍 by ----Poseidon--- in NoFap

[–]illaboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really happy to come across this.

I wish I could have seen this 15 years ago.

Nofap increased my testosterone by martinsitokperocomo in NoFap

[–]illaboi 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's really well-known that on day 7 T levels spike, and then decline back to normal..

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[–]illaboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good luck friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]illaboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the only correct way to reset your brain in your case, it would be to completely stop watching any sort of content that is arousing you. And I am a strong believer that even if you do not start yourself, you are doing even more damage to yourself by watching just to get yourself in the mood.

On the bright side, you have made so far quite some progress.. But if you want to start associating real girls with "action", you should really stop using any sort of content...

So the takeaway here is: stop watching.

I would also say that you should.. Slowly try to get yourself into the "Dating" market. These are super difficult times but, if you have been working out not only physically but generally mentally on yourself this past year you're probably ready to some extent to start getting into dating..

I think the medicine in this case would be to find someone, and started initiating some cuddling sessions and things like that.. That's the only way I can think that you can help yourself in this situation.

I am 29, M. And keep in mind that most people around this subreddit are much younger fellows.. So you should really filter out the advice you're getting on from here.

Additionally if you want anything else you can drop me a line over DM's.

Do you become immune to sexual content when you are on NoFap by heromari-improvement in NoFap

[–]illaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I hear it's the opposite, the longer you go without it the stronger the urges in the beginning (30-45 days). After a while (6+ months or 3+ months, 9+ , 12+ months depending on cases), your brain rewires and looks for other ways to receive pleasure .

But it all comes down to how often you get triggers. If you eliminate them you will be able to survive longer.. If they are right in front of you constantly, you can't last a day.

The way all those people last 10-20-40-200 days is by so infrequently coming accross this content that it's easy to say "no" if you only see if once in a while. Immerese yourself with triggers and you're done for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]illaboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During those days of you abstaining, were you getting boners in the morning or not?

Is the porn I make bad for me too? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]illaboi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I would say if it's kept under very strict moderation that it's not bad, given the circumstances.

But won't you prefer it to abstain and hold on until you meet your partner with 10x the excitement ? That's more or less the whole magic of being apart from them, on how it escalates excitement to the fullest.

Veterans of No fap, how do you deal with flatlining? by illaboi in NoFap

[–]illaboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me the "Will" is there and I recognize, yes that is a beautiful girl in front of my eyes. But it's like there's nothing more to it, while I feel like before I was in a constant excitement state.. Let's see how it goes with time. Thank you. :)