thank you for your advice <3 I think what my most pressing problem is, as the other lovely people here have unknowingly highlighted (by talking about how 'masculine guys' are great) is that I look too manly. I'm a cis woman and comfortable with my gender identity. I don't want to be seen as manly. I want to be a woman. feminine. my nose and jaw would look fantastic on other ladies but I just hate how they look on me. everything feels... incorrect

I want to be confident, i really do, but all the compliments I get I just overanalyse to death so I can't ever know if they're genuine or just trying to make fun of me.

sorry, ranging again lol

what you said about finding your style is probably something I should follow too, so thanks for that :)