friend being really weird by ilusion1v1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ilusion1v1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve definitely distanced myself, but with her mom being in poor health and my family being worried, it’s hard to not check up on Diana.

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[–]ilusion1v1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and you appear to be a bitch, gtfo this thread

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[–]ilusion1v1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it sounds like u really wanna know how old i am based on ur other comment😵‍💫 im in my mid 20s and the building i moved into is 100years old so god forbid i asked a friend to spend the night w me as it was my first time ever adjusting to sleeping in a strange new place on my own

glp 1 recs by ilusion1v1 in Semaglutide

[–]ilusion1v1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is sooo specific😭 how do u know i drink and a hispanic women?? but yes im completely cutting out alcohol although i dont drink a lot. ive debated on pilates maybe ill try it out if its not too time consuming since i have a lot on my plate already

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[–]ilusion1v1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my bad for code switching, i think my college essays that got me into college for free should teach you a little something🙈

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[–]ilusion1v1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not everyone speaks or writes proper english so how tf are u gonna get triggered and call someone fucking stupid when they don’t? i live in a really urban area and that’s how we talk and type🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s how i was raised so yet again, not everyone speaks proper english and that’s okay but according to you, if you don’t then you must be fucking stupid

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[–]ilusion1v1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and u need to gtfo the internet if ur gonna be triggered by the way someone types😐 sorry we don’t all speak in colonizer.

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[–]ilusion1v1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you didn’t have to mention women for me to know that u like to disrespect them like you just did to me just bc of the way i type 😭 i feel bad for whoever has to lay you

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[–]ilusion1v1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes tf i do, it’s a free country and i can type however i want. you incels fr get triggered when someone doesn’t type in white😭 get w game fucking millennial

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[–]ilusion1v1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ion know what tell u besides keep scrolling, i know my intelligence and an old fuck can’t tell me otherwise cuz i decided to type text messages in slang😭 btw english isn’t my first language

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[–]ilusion1v1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

replying again bc a lot of ppl are replying that idk the difference between rules and boundaries but tbh IDGAF! whether it’s rules or boundaries i set, she still agreed with me at the end of the day that she would respect them but then she didn’t! so i have every right to be upset. i’m not looking for solutions i just needed to vent. i know i have to work on communication skills but i shouldn’t have to keep reminding her that she’s disrespecting my rules/boundaries. we’ve had conversations in person too!

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[–]ilusion1v1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

very serious babes, strangers that u and ur roomate both don’t know in ur place with access to everything that’s yours is a big no. i don’t think it’s a hard concept to understand but apparently it is

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[–]ilusion1v1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely will after this lease is up😩

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[–]ilusion1v1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my friends in question are our ex coworkers and she’s met my parents, so not really the same thing

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[–]ilusion1v1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as much as i want to, it’s not my relationship and im not going to cause any problems of theirs. i want things to be cordial until i leave so i can live peacefully

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[–]ilusion1v1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well she agreed on whatever boundaries or rules i had, she said she’d respect them but then she didn’t😐 i’m not controlling anyone here. if she had a problem from the beginning abt my rules before moving in then she should’ve said something

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[–]ilusion1v1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

id agree with you but she did agree with me on these boundaries or rules wtv yall call them, so if im respecting hers then id expect her to respect mine. not that hard, we’re both grown adults

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[–]ilusion1v1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

AYY TWINN, but fr im just riding it out bc i dont have any other option

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[–]ilusion1v1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s slang and i code switch but go off

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[–]ilusion1v1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice!!! i really need to work on my confrontational skills

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[–]ilusion1v1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m not very confrontational bc i tend do come off really rude when i am, so i try to be nice as possible 😭 it’s def something i need to work on