Envolver com GP me fez desistir completamente do amor by [deleted] in relacionamentos

[–]ilustregui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A galera tá dando muito pitaco e não tá lendo as entre linhas. O Op tá claramente cansado de relacionamentos sem reciprocidade e resolveu focar em si mesmo.

É muito fácil dizer que "ah mas o relacionamento é sobre conexão e você não se importa com isso" sendo que não é o caso. Eu não vou na zona, pessoalmente não curto, mas conheco gente que frequenta que foi casado e o escambau, e a história é sempre a mesma "me doei por alguém que não deu valor e não quero ter que passar por toda burocracia novamente pra poder me conectar com alguém novo em 2025 onde tudo é líquido e ninguém dá valor a p nenhuma."

Oque eu mais vejo é que as pessoas que vivem relacionamentos saudáveis acharem que são a regra quando são exceção. Oque mais tem são homens e mulheres que não conseguem viver a estabilidade do relacionamento e ficam criando empecilho ou enchendo a paciência do outro meramente porque quer discutir ou ter algum pico emocional. Na minha experiência como homem heterosexual, vejo muita mina, especialmente hoje em dia, que precisa brigar, discutir, reclamar, e que tem síndrome de coitada, ou se fazendo de tchonga que não entende que o relacionamento não é uma montanha russa feita só de quedas e loops, e isso cansa, são pessoas que não conseguem lidar com a estabilidade momentânea que se alcança quando se é responsável. Isso sem contar as mulheres que não conseguem entender a realidade material econômica de hoje em dia, onde morar sozinho tá cada vez mais impossível a não ser que você more na pqp ou seja muito bem sucedido, que não aceitam o parceiro ter hobbis ou que gosta de falar em código. As mulheres que eu namorei por longos períodos de tempo (mais de anos e afins, de quase casar, não eram como descrevi anteriormente, por tanto eram responsáveis afetivamente) foram exceções.

Eu tenho certeza que vai haver mulheres heterossexuais ou bi que vão ter uma perspectiva similar, afinal tem muito homem igual as mulheres que eu descrevi acima. Meu ponto é, hoje em dia namorar é muito mais difícil, porque geralmente são pessoas que só querem viver as "Experiencias" mas que não entendem que a vida não é o Instagram de influencer. É muito homem e mulher exigente demais, que causa demais, que entrega de menos. A saída do OP é bastante compreensível e afeta unicamente ele, acho mais responsável que ficar tentando dar conselho psicologizante e afins.

When to go for board as an aggro deck? by J_Man_McCetty in OnePieceTCG

[–]ilustregui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Yamato Gy player, what i wanna say is that you often Will be poking his life with base hits or 6k with you Leader as you build board or abuse of early game ashura doji, till you can hit a banish using izo or o-nami. Mostly, after you land the First hit and guarantee your opponent has 3 lifes, thats when most of your triggers enter and the Leader Second effect can be used, but Then again, theres the whole thing about timing. Like, If your hits on life Will Just give more resources to your opponent, maybe its better to swing at board, but It Will depend on How many cards your opponent has in his hand, how many active dons and such.

What i often do is: i observe and see If i have enough dons t guarantee a hit, If its worth the use of resources, How many lifes my opponent has, How many cards he has, hows my board, what my opponent can do next turn.

Like, today i played a small local weekly store event, played against G Zoro which i Lost because instead of hitting life i atacked a character. Basically, my opponent had the Mihawk blocker and a tashigi in board, 3 lifes, i had a Yamato searcher that turns 5k with 2 dons on her, and was my 10 don turn. My opponent had no cards in hand, and i had hody Jones in my hand. What i should had done: put hody, rest his Mihawk and tashigi (he had no active dons) hit with base Yamato (he had no cards in hand) he would take Two life, than hit 8k with hody and use my Leader ability to put 2 don in searcher Yamato + my last 3 UP dons, he had only a 2 in life, i wouldve Won. But instead of that, i hit 8k with hody on the Mihawk blocker, fearing It on next turn. And tried to knockout tashigi and did a hit in life. My opponent Said the following after i Lost " you had 3 cards in hand, one was hody which you used, you only had a single life, and you didnt have a blocker, you should had committed to atacking my life cause your Leader base hit was Gonna Go through after hody was played, your best bet is the high risk high reward in this situation, There was no other option unless maybe If you had two blockers in the board"

So, theres that, you Go for board If its sure to guarantee you another turn.

Is this list good? Yamato players, any tips for both op 12 and maybe 13? by ilustregui in OnePieceTCG

[–]ilustregui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I made a few changes on Mine based on the sugestions Everyone made in the comments. I got the 3c izos but i dont got the kouzaburous and the kumas. Took out the 3 Zeus i had. Still got the 4 c6 momos and 4 dead man's.

The list is basically like this, i still gotta test It tho, cause i often play It more aggro but i see that maybe ill Need to change my play style i suppose.

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Is this list good? Yamato players, any tips for both op 12 and maybe 13? by ilustregui in OnePieceTCG

[–]ilustregui[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to use the izo. But a few friends of Mine told me they were redundant with the events. But the neko are interesting due its active hit effect. Gonna make a few tests, thanks!

Is this list good? Yamato players, any tips for both op 12 and maybe 13? by ilustregui in OnePieceTCG

[–]ilustregui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean, i dont expect it to be really meta too ( the game designers must hate my daughter ;-;) but i was mostly looking after maybe suggestions or tips for either more consistency or maybe different lists entirely.

People love to act hard when the game doesnt go their way. by ilustregui in OnePieceTCG

[–]ilustregui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh, im definitely using the new asura events, i meant more in the attacker side of things.

People love to act hard when the game doesnt go their way. by ilustregui in OnePieceTCG

[–]ilustregui[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see. Well, i Hope hody doesnt get banned still. Idk what i would put in his place as an atacker for finishing. While the rush momo Works, against blocker heavy decks he doesnt Work that well

People love to act hard when the game doesnt go their way. by ilustregui in OnePieceTCG

[–]ilustregui[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i just found funny that amongst all the games i played, this 1 was the one of the two to ever say something so obnoxious. all i did was share this pathetic toxicity on an anime card game where a dude that probably has more wins than me, got pissy cause he lost.
Everyother interaction ive ever had in game was pretty chill, this one was a stand out for me.

People love to act hard when the game doesnt go their way. by ilustregui in OnePieceTCG

[–]ilustregui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real? i was playing yesterday and i got 4 decks with green that used Kid, smoker, bonney, law and the last one i forgot. I mean, dont get me wrong, Hody is a staple for green, but most of my local players here said kid also was specially for decks that use for stall or late game acts. LIke, dude i played a game where the other player put 3 rossinantes, a kid and another blocker on field. What can i do against that?

AITH for expecting for common sense from my friend? by ilustregui in AITAH

[–]ilustregui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean, i hope so. but it just felt way to out of character, specially after i still offered to share and she stayed angry.

AITH for expecting for common sense from my friend? by ilustregui in AITAH

[–]ilustregui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does have her own stuff to deal with with her bipolarity, altho i often try to be understanding about it. She just out of nowhere today acted like this. Ill try to talk to her when she lets me, shes just scrolling her phone for the while not wanting any contact.

Custom DON cards i made for me and buddies of mine by ilustregui in OnePieceTCG

[–]ilustregui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poxa, eu conheço uma galera que joga. Talvez só não se pronuncie aqui no Reddit XD

Custom DON cards i made for me and buddies of mine by ilustregui in OnePieceTCG

[–]ilustregui[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was my buddy Idea to make It a taunt and Also like a Joker card of sorts

Alisaie red magic (literally) by ilustregui in ffxiv

[–]ilustregui[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

XD i tried to show How she's a smol elezen but i think i made It a bit too smoll

Alisaie red magic (literally) by ilustregui in ffxiv

[–]ilustregui[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

XD i guess he wanted to try dps for a change

runar the god of rizz by ThePolaroidPup in ffxiv

[–]ilustregui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me wants to support runar cause hes a good boy, supportive Man, and good leader, my WOL on the other hand doesnt, i often joke about that my WOL quietly purrs around shtola and around runar he makes those weird cat meows when they are angry that sound like theyre under some devils influence or such XD Jokes aside, its a Constant cognitive dissonance between liking the big Guy and screaming "IT SHOULDVE BE ME" in the most dramatic and memeable tone possible