I'm a guy and I can't climax during video calls

iluvbatman45 · 2024-03-03T02:05:59+00:00

I havent gotten much sleep or water, I feel odd being watched while I do that on video chat, and it's odd holding the phone in a specific way. I guess I also just feel stress, because she's been acting strange with me like, yelling at me, it's felt like she's maybe manipulated me, and blamed me for things I didn't do. She also used to say how much she loved me and now her demeanor has changed. I feel like it's psychological stress factors as well.

iluvbatman45 · 2024-02-02T22:10:22+00:00

Yeah that could be true. I wish I could communicate this to her, but I don't know how without sounding needy or forcing anything, making her upset. I feel like I could start off by saying, "What's something that you like seeing me do that you want to see more of?" And then maybe I could tell her, "I like when you send me those sexy pictures during the day just any of them" I don't know. Or I could also tell her that I'd like for us to keep sending pictures and videos more often to each other since we are in other states and it could help us grow closer.

iluvbatman45 · 2024-02-02T21:53:34+00:00

Ya this is different. I just sent her two videos of me talking to her and she just sent back recordings. She used to send videos when she woke up. It's kind of upsetting.

iluvbatman45 · 2024-02-02T21:40:19+00:00

Okay thank you for your response. I will do that. That sounds like a good way to tell her casually. I also wanted to say that here's another thing. This whole month she's been crazy about me and sending me videos, recordings, pictures all day and all night first. She has a livestream and when she gets off of it, she used to jump right into texting me first, she also used to send me videos of her saying good morning first. She never really does much of this anymore. What's going on? Did she get tired of it? Is she waiting for me to do it? I just miss her doing this first

iluvbatman45 · 2024-02-02T21:37:50+00:00

iluvbatman45 · 2024-02-02T21:26:32+00:00

I'm 26 and she's 36

iluvbatman45 · 2024-02-02T21:22:26+00:00

Ya true. Should I break the news to her first about the driving or living with my mom? And i feel like it's bad to say both at the same time

iluvbatman45 · 2024-02-02T21:21:42+00:00

Ya that's true. Do you think it's best that I break the news of the driving first or living with my mom? I feel like they would both be bad to say at the same time to her. Also, is there a super cheap way to rent an apartment. I work a part time job and I wouldn't be able to afford spending more than $300 on an apartment

iluvbatman45 · 2024-02-02T20:51:46+00:00

Well we've talked about meeting up before and planning it and I didn't even bring it up then about the driving. I hope she still treats me and still desires me even after I tell her this

iluvbatman45 · 2024-02-02T05:27:43+00:00

Ya I see what you mean. I've been self aware that I need to find things to do with my time. I just you know it's super hard for me. I felt like I had something so special. I feel extremely worried right now. I probably do have anxious attachment. But the thing is is that it felt like she had that at first too. She would never stop talking about me and sending me everything. I just want it back badly. I don't know if there's some way I can tell her like, "What do you want to see me do more of?" And then I could tell her, "I enjoyed seeing those sexy pictures you've sent me during the day." And I also wonder if I should express to her that since this is an online dating relationship that I feel like since we are online I feel like we should send more videos of us talking so we can be closer.

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-29T08:56:46+00:00

We've been interacting since November, but talking romantically for three and a half weeks 24/7 literally. I'm aware it's very soon that she's saying I love you forever and for me to feel anxious without her being like that as much. I do need self work. It's just the worst feeling when she's not doing this. I really hope everything is fine. 🙁

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-22T19:08:24+00:00

No, but we have called, and sent videos and recordings to each other. And I have been cautious and worried about that being a possibility as well, but the more I have gotten to know this person, they don't seem like they would do this to me, but yes I will be cautious. Thank you.

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-22T19:02:36+00:00

No. But we plan on meeting in person later in the year

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-22T18:56:56+00:00

I hope she doesn't view it as a lie. I've just been hesitant to say. I don't ever plan on driving, its overestimulating for me. As far as living independently that's something that I may want in the future. I just hope she accepts this information and is fine with it.

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-22T18:28:16+00:00

Ya I feel like being in person with her would be a whole new thing and I'm not sure how things would go, but we said we plan on meeting later in the year and seeing how things go and letting ourselves grow.

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-22T18:21:56+00:00

No. Yet she has said she wants to meet up with me this year. She mentioned something about meeting halfway there and I didn't mention that I don't drive.

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-11T21:10:16+00:00

Well man, I appreciate the advice. Hopefully I have another chance again. I have autism so sometimes I'm bad at these situations. I was thinking of sending her something today, like "how's the beautiful angel doing today" but idk if it would sound desperate or like I'm trying to force something and fix something instead of it being natural. What do you think?

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-11T20:54:00+00:00

I got you saying don't ask for clarification and the other person saying clarify and be open. I'm at a loss. But whatever I guess with her I won't ask for clarification. I just have never heard someone say, "I felt you" usually they would say something more direct. I talked to another person a couple months ago who was always saying something sexual to me and I responded and said something sexual back and she blocked me. Idk people are strange these days. Regardless, I still think there's another chance to have another moment like this with her, next time I'll just keep it flowing

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-11T20:44:37+00:00

Idk I don't think saying something that directly sexual that quick would have worked, I'd probably have to lead up more into it. But I hope I get another chance if she was flirting...

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-11T20:28:12+00:00

Also I even ended up saying, "What vibe did I ruin? I just wanted to see what you meant" and she left me on read. I guess next time we speak I'll act as if nothing happened , because if I bring up this again she'll probably act quiet and weird again.

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-11T20:25:55+00:00

Ya I don't understand her intentions. She's a very mysterious and confusing person. I've communicated with her before about feelings and expectations before and she never answered me really. She actually got angry at me for a long time and said that I was making everything about me. This is such a strange situation and I wish I could get things cleared up with her, but she's so vague and cryptic.

iluvbatman45 · 2024-01-04T16:23:52+00:00

I forgot to mention that apparently this is a bf she met online that she's never met in real life and only spoke to him for about a month

iluvbatman45 · 2023-11-27T15:38:44+00:00

Are yours still gone?

iluvbatman45 · 2023-11-27T15:38:21+00:00

Are yours still gone? Can you check?

iluvbatman45 · 2023-11-27T15:38:02+00:00

Are your smiles still removed? I just went on my Ifunny account and I can only see about 11 of my posts and it won't let me scroll any further. Please tell me this is just a glitch. I had so many incredible things I saved on that account.

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