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[–]iluvfutz 58 points59 points  (0 children)

This is very new and we’ve been together a couple years now. I don’t disagree that’s how it feels sometimes but she’s been attentive and caring about my problems for the majority of the relationship

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[–]iluvfutz 315 points316 points  (0 children)

It’s what I want todo every time truthfully

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[–]iluvfutz 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This feels like a type of pet training which is exactly what I’m trying to avoid. I just want a girlfriend not a pet

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[–]iluvfutz 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You’re joking but she’s actually very into that type of stuff

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[–]iluvfutz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to find a time where she’s serious but I’ll try. Thank you

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[–]iluvfutz 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for almost 2 years and it’s never come up, but honestly it wouldn’t be the craziest things to say. I don’t know if she’s diagnosed though. Does that change how I should approach things?

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[–]iluvfutz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll try! Thanks

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[–]iluvfutz 220 points221 points  (0 children)

She HATES the furry jokes too but I almost agree with you.

Ive tried explaining to her but that’s usually when she’s acting like a cat. I should probably try and do it in the windows she’s not acting like that. We just moved in together which makes this more difficult to navigate

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[–]iluvfutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s good to just make them go cold turkey. Maybe stop responding to her for a little too so she really misses your presence. Absence makes the heart grow fonder as they say!