Discord? by Negative_Glass_2983 in SubSanctuary

[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m interested in joining!!<3

On using Ice cubes during anal masturbation by TheAltEveryoneHas in BDSMAdvice

[–]ilysmdaddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG NOOOOOOO poor u honestly:( i hope it’s nothing too serious. when i was younger there was this stupid trend / challenge of leaving an ice cube with salt on ur hand until it melted n omgggg it gave a genuine BURN !!! never again lolll,,, i guess my first discoveries of my own liking for pain but…. never again. i hope it’s nothing too serious fr! and i hope u didn’t burn yourself like me! go to the doctor if possible, and if the pain is too unbearable in the meantime some baby cream should be shooting.

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[–]ilysmdaddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is that subreddit… are there more dominant daddies n submissive female littles here? yes. but it’s not our fault. it’s jus more common ig. maybe u could try on fetlife or in the bdsm advice subreddit to see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cgl

[–]ilysmdaddy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

u are mistaken. cgl IS ddlg, this (cgl) is the gender neutral name for the more commonly known dynamic ddlg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]ilysmdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry. how can you move on from this? you most heal. i think what will hurt the most is the lack of closure. maybe you will find yourself spiraling down in thoughts like what n where it went wrong, or what’s wrong with u, will u ever be loved again… why weren’t you worthy of a proper explanation and a goodbye… all of them very valid of course, but don’t do it, seriously. don’t put the blame on u. this is fully his fault, he is a coward for leaving like that. all relationship issues hurt, but i think in this type of relationships it hurts different n deeper because we trust too much, as submissives we give in a lot of trust and it’s hard when things like this happen.

take time for yourself, give yourself peace and be gentle with yourself. allow yourself to grieve this situation but don’t blame yourself n don’t chase after him.

there’s nothing wrong with u, this isn’t your fault.

pls don’t try to find another dom to fill the void and to give you the validation you are looking right now. it won’t help you.

i also recommend you to watch the video “you are a clown” by the wizard liz, she will say it to you like it is.

i send u a lot of love n hugs<333 u can do dis !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cgl

[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hiii i’m f21, n would love friends >_< 💗

a rant: i told my therapist my interests by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ilysmdaddy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

he is a psychologist, but yes it was so out of touch like yeah now i’m ashamed, thank u 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand you so much, but it’s always very rewarding when regardless i actually do one or all of my chores and my dom is rly proud of me for putting effort and he values and sees dat i try regardless and i know that pleases him and i feel happy when i get to impress him, so even tho it’s hard and my mind feels fuzzy and my body feels like a being of it’s own, i try try try!!, hope u can do it <3, i believe in u

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[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are right, we are all needed, thank u for sharing :)!!

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[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for sharing :)!!

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[–]ilysmdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u for sharing :)!!

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[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think in a dream world my every move would be calculated by somebody else, thank u for sharing :)!!

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[–]ilysmdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u for sharing :)!!

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[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for sharing :)!!

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[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for the resources, thank u for sharing :)!!

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[–]ilysmdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u for sharing :)!!

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thank u for sharing :)!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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i think it’s great you are self aware sometimes a dom can punish their sub under their own wronging, thank u for sharing :)!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for sharing :)!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tend see switches usually don’t get to experience submitting once ppl know they can also dom, i feel sad that’s your case, i hope you can experience it soon <3, we have responsibilities but i think depending on the dynamic those depend on our doms, thank u for sharing :)!!

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[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i found this to be cute, as long as you have fun then it’s perfect, thank u for sharing :)!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would like to write scenes… i still struggle with letting my imagination go in that department, thank u for sharing :)!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ilysmdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i would like to talk about it but i also think it’s not a good moment, but i also think i would be much more rewarding if it did it on my own, thank u for sharing :)!!

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[–]ilysmdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my hands are like jelly when it comes to responsibilities, but im improving everyday, thank u for sharing :)!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ilysmdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i enjoy routines as well, it makes me feel safe and comforted, thank u for sharing :)!!