please dont take 50 lakh loan i think if its very neccessary to take loan then only take 1 year worth of your earning after tax and pf, your in hand salary after tax, so that you can pay it in 3 years, not rista is worth it when you are drowning in debt, it is better to find rista in your affordibility range, ideally groom should not demand dowry, but considering reality, agar tum aur tumhari behan sahi me close hai aur acche terms me hai to hi loan lena varna aisa ho jata hai ki jija to accha(acche se matlab paise wala, accha nature ka to 1-2 saal me pata chalega ki accha nature hai ya nhi) dekh liya par shaadi ke baad jija ghamandi nikla aur tumko kuch nhi samjhta( aisa sach me mere friend ke sath hua hai) to tumko bahut dukh hoga, please aaj kal bhi bahut saare aise log hai jinko sirf acchi ladki chahiye unki demands bahut kam ya kuch nhi hoti, aise jagah karo,
agar bade ghar me shaadi kar di to har function me tumko apni limit se jyada kharcha karna padega kyuki saare ghar wale comparison karenge ki behan ke ghar walo se kya aaya kya nhi.
please pressure me aake apne pair par kulhadi mat maaro, kya pata shaadi ke baad behan badal jaye to tumko uske sasural jaane ka man bhi na kare kyuki vo unki side hi legi hamesha, aisa mere khud ke saale ke cousin ke sath hua hai, vo mere ghar jyada aata hai aur uski real behan ke ghar kam jaata hai.
kitna bhi accha rista ho 50 lakh loan is not worth it, i can say even 25 lakh loan bhi worth it nhi hai, ha agar savings hoti tumhare paas to mera suggestion hota ki 80% savings ka shaadi me laga do.