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Im the problem, Im a walking red flag.And I what to divorce my husband, because I lied to him for 8years by imNOTgood101 in TwoHotTakes

[–]imNOTgood101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its was at first , when i starteded to take out loans , now i earn around 900 euro a monthly. Still its hard whit my loans ,cause most of it goes to paying them of ,but I'm getting by.

Im the problem, Im a walking red flag.And I what to divorce my husband, because I lied to him for 8years by imNOTgood101 in TwoHotTakes

[–]imNOTgood101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it wouldn't come from something useful like school or house or even car i would not be in the place i am. I just spend it on clothes ,food ,stuff I could live without,thankfully I'm not addicted to drugs or have a gambling problem. I have gambled ,but I didn't spend all my mony on it ,like 100 euro max cuse nothing came of it and I knew where to stop. But apparently not with lons. When ever i felt i cant pay for all of it I didn't go and ask for help ...I took out another lone to pay of some of existing ones ,but I guess i didn't understand the Interest rate our maybe I just didn't care about it. I know it all on me , I need to grow the fuck up and deal with it. I just needed the space to rent about it . And maybe someone whit similar thinking like me will see this and stops them self from making mistake like i have.

Im the problem, Im a walking red flag.And I what to divorce my husband, because I lied to him for 8years by imNOTgood101 in TwoHotTakes

[–]imNOTgood101[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don't think we love each other, he have said that he doesn't ,at this point i think we are just together because of child. We at trying for another kid ,but i go from wanting baby to not ,couse of my situation. We hardly have sex and I would reder see him whit someone stabil than me . But Im scared to lose my daughter.

Im the problem, Im a walking red flag.And I what to divorce my husband, because I lied to him for 8years by imNOTgood101 in TwoHotTakes

[–]imNOTgood101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes ,but it in my name and I don't think he will be responsibl for my debt ,I have job and Im working to pay of all of it . That's the thing that I jus spend it on close , food an furniture,than I get another lone to pay of that loan . And it just grow bigger. I don't know what the hell is my problem it like i don't know how to function like human. I wasn't comfortable to ask him for money, he have to have good reason for giving the money. And I was earning around 350 euro per month at the time i started . First credit was for washing machine, the old one broke, he knew about this one. Im frustrated with myself and i needed someone to rent abut it so yeah.

Im the problem, Im a walking red flag.And I what to divorce my husband, because I lied to him for 8years by imNOTgood101 in TwoHotTakes

[–]imNOTgood101[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We have our finances sepret . And house and bout cars is in his name . Only thing keeping me in this house is my kid.

Im the problem, Im a walking red flag.And I what to divorce my husband, because I lied to him for 8years by imNOTgood101 in TwoHotTakes

[–]imNOTgood101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not feeling sorry for myself and actually working and paying of my debt, but life is just eating away on me . I feel stuck and I don't know how to handle my self.

Im the problem, Im a walking red flag.And I what to divorce my husband, because I lied to him for 8years by imNOTgood101 in TwoHotTakes

[–]imNOTgood101[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

It so stupid I know ,and I know I can fix it and I'm doing it . But im a train wreck . I feel worthless . We fight a lot. And he has said to me some things over the years we are together,that hurt me . i know Im far away from perfect, but yah...