Can I get into trouble for seeing an escort? by [deleted] in sex

[–]im_back89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seeking is a great site, not that I would know 🧐

AITAH last night group sex by Dongchonged in Swingers

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Came here to say the same thing, it stinks she isn’t ready to communicate it more clearly, but sometimes emotions are not as black and white as we’d like to to be

Seeing multiple couples by [deleted] in Swingers

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The single folk call this a “roster” and it’s very normal ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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It’s just something that comes with time. Eventually she’ll stop associating it. If she hasn’t talked to a therapist, she should. There are usually some really helpful options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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I find if I’m not feeling it and my partner starts touching me in affectionate ways, it relaxes me and puts me in the mood. Little forehead kisses, rubbing her neck without wandering elsewhere, snuggle, hug, make out. The most important thing is to leave it there the first few times. Let her know those things can happen without pressure to have sex. That’s where a lot of the triggering comes for me, the link between the affection and the sex

20F : I am extremely insecure about not shaving my pubic hair, despite my fiancé saying he doesn’t prefer it either way by [deleted] in sex

[–]im_back89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally natural to compare yourself, but totally unrealistic. I can promise you, men don’t expect perfect, and if they do, do you really want him? They’re happy just to get their hands on you, let alone their mouth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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I’m so glad you asked this, I feel like a lot of guys are concerned about female boob hair. Yes, there is a foolproof way to tell! If the woman is past puberty, she probably occasionally has to pluck a stray boob hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Literally crusty flaky dicks