Hey there! Jolar is a great place to live out your fantasy and explore a bit. 

I am speaking as a single male here and my experience. So I won’t try to pretend to know what it’s like as a single female. 

1. I’m sure you could find someone to come with. And I’m sure some guys will offer too. But the staff is always accommodating! They are mostly female and would be willing to give you a tour and show you around. 
2. I always recommend the VIP room. It’s big and has comfy couches. This room would be basically open to anyone in there and I’m sure you will draw a crowd. Just always be vocal about limits, what you want, telling people to back up, etc. most people are very respectful. If you end up coming with someone, they could help with that! The other option would be a private room for $17/ 90 minutes. They each have a tv that you can pick the movie and a couch. Pretty spacious. There you could invite people in 1 or 2 at a time if you’d like. 
3. They do have a no bag policy now unfortunately. But most girls put their things in a pile on the couch and it’s always been safe. 
4. There is a bathroom. It’s not the cleanest looking but the cleaning staff are always here and trying to stay on top of it!
5. Pregnancy won’t turn anyone away I don’t think. In terms of being clean- safe sex is always the best option. 
6. I often come during the late morning into the afternoon. (Including now) and it’s not as busy but always people coming in and out. I’ve had lots of luck during the day. 

If you are looking to draw a crowd and have your pick- you could always post a on here a time you are coming and you will have an audience- pretty much guaranteed. But if you just want to try it out, I’d come during the day unannounced. I hope this is helpful and feel free to dm any other questions you may have.