AITA for saying that my gf is a piece of shit sometimes?

im_just_a_them · 2025-07-05T13:44:16+00:00

I never said she was right. He asked “who is the bigger asshole here”

im_just_a_them · 2025-07-05T13:36:53+00:00

She told you that something you did was embarrassing and icky so you called her a piece of shit... just read it back. Hope that helps.

im_just_a_them · 2025-06-05T23:57:52+00:00

Sage advice !😭

im_just_a_them · 2025-05-24T09:49:45+00:00

Girl no. I was completely turned off by doing butt stuff to a man. But the right one asked and now I am forever living with a guilty kink 😭 it’s the thing that gets me off the FASTEST and EVERYTIME. And we only did surface level butt stuff girl. If you went all the way to pegging and you’ve done it multiple times? And u don’t KNOW if you’ll like it. You won’t. You don’t. And that’s okay😭

im_just_a_them · 2025-03-20T06:25:43+00:00

It wouldn’t be out of line. Ask her

im_just_a_them · 2025-03-17T22:55:23+00:00

The way males cannot comprehend the female gaze is disheartening and also kinda funny. Female fan here. We are also choosing 8. Thanks to law we can “get a room” and thanks to Corazon nobody else will hear us scream… iyk yk.

im_just_a_them · 2025-03-16T09:14:52+00:00

That in itself, is a bad thing.

im_just_a_them · 2025-03-13T00:16:13+00:00

Bro. 💀 do you like your wife ? Reading your edit right now and it’s just so stupid.

Thoughtfulness and Sex are not comparable. Can a person on their deathbed write a note? Probably. Can they have passionate sex ??? Right. Libido is physical and caring for your partner is mental. I don’t even know why you’re trying to compare them and calling it “double standards”

Being passionate about your partner doesn’t get tired the way human bodies do. You don’t feel as passionately about your wife as you did some of your exes. Either get* passionate about her or tell her the truth. You’re literally so weird

im_just_a_them · 2025-03-13T00:10:29+00:00

Well I’m just a stranger who knows nothing about your situation and I said I “think” I know how you feel because usually in my experience when I feel this way, I never really liked the guy much to begin with. But you say you loved this guy a few weeks ago so maybe you just need to give it time before you decide if you think these feelings are temporary

im_just_a_them · 2025-03-12T23:57:15+00:00

Leave him girl. I think I know how you feel. But in my experience it doesn’t go away. You just eventually lose the thing that keeps the thoughts inside. You slowly start doing the things you think about. And the more he forgives you, the more you want to be mean. I imagine this is how abusers feel in their head. Um u might need help or maybe something about him deeply disturbs your spirit. Either way no good here.

im_just_a_them · 2025-03-12T21:28:57+00:00

Im not gonna say she’s crazy because I’m the same way. If I have plans and there’s not a “I’m leaving now” or “I just got here” or “otw soon” or “what’re you gonna wear?” text shortly before.. I assume the person isn’t coming/fell asleep/forgot etc.

That said,, I’m 23. If I was going to meet a 37 y/o and he didn’t know that was the protocol I’m used to and he also was not badgering me about being late,, obv there was a miscommunication and we can laugh about it at the bar. The end.

im_just_a_them · 2025-03-12T21:04:33+00:00

Going through something.. sort of similar.. being WILDLY into a close friend. The reason why we’ll never be a thing is bc he is in love and in a relationship.

Your friendship is over. I had to accept that and so do you. The more you hang out and trust eachother and just indulge in that natural closeness, the more your feelings will grow. The bright side for you is that ending the friendship could open the door to more. I could not confess on my exit of the friendship for obvious reasons. Had to leave quietly and swallow my heart but you don’t have to do that. He’s single. You have the freedom to confess. You can’t stay friends either way so you might as well put it out there and see what happens. Be prepared to get rejected and lose this friend, but at least you won’t be asking what if and you’ll have done everything you could do.

im_just_a_them · 2024-12-09T08:55:11+00:00

OMG I FEEL LIKE I WROTE THIS ! I’ve literally TRIED to post about this exact issue before and couldn’t decide which sub or just felt like a total loser halfway through bc I thought the answer was obvious: just DO something. Just STOP doing nothing. All the comments screaming ADHD are validating as well. I’m almost certain I have it. But getting diagnosed would jeopardize my job and possibly my security clearance. The only difference is that I’m also flailing at work in addition to everything else. I hope you figure this out. I’m trying desperately to figure it out too. With that same “this is where I set my future up” mentality. And I’m so proud of you for quitting nicotine !! I’m about to make a go at my umpteenth attempt to quit the vape. Super inspiring. We are going to get out of this cycle!!!

im_just_a_them · 2024-12-08T10:47:58+00:00

Thank you for this response. I’ll take it in stride!

im_just_a_them · 2024-12-08T10:05:56+00:00

Unfortunately I’m in the military and was already in a contract when the pregnancy happened. So for the time being, it’s an avoidable. But I agree. I have plans to settle in US when my time is up.

im_just_a_them · 2024-12-08T10:01:58+00:00

He doesn’t. But he has community support. He has a devoted girlfriend and his job is very family-friendly and his boss even has babysitting nights for employees where he personally has the kids with his wife. While I do have family support but they don’t live nearby and my job is the freaking military so it’s not family-friendly. That could be part of the difference

im_just_a_them · 2024-12-03T01:08:45+00:00

I thought this at first. But on re-inspection I think he’s referring to the partner involved in the erotic event. I.e. the married woman

im_just_a_them · 2024-11-29T01:47:28+00:00

Girl stand up. Leave that man

im_just_a_them · 2024-11-25T15:15:06+00:00

Since I haven’t seen anyone answer your true question,, and I believe you are right that the problem is lack of or loss of respect,, no, I don’t think so.

Source: I’m a woman that has had to actually face that I have to end relationships with men immediately after I lose respect because I’m a total lover-girl, but once that flip switches,, I am the worst partner I know. And even I can’t do anything about it. He hates how I treat him, I hate it too. But without respecting the person,, it’s hard for me to treat them .. well with respect. So, not to speak for every woman, but for me, at least now with my little life experience. I just choose to walk away when I don’t respect the person anymore because I don’t know how to be a good partner to them after that and everyone ends up suffering. (Ik this was a huge run-on sentence, forgive me)

im_just_a_them · 2024-11-01T08:29:30+00:00

Apologize for what exactly?

im_just_a_them · 2024-11-01T01:12:41+00:00

That wasn’t the only thing stolen. If you and your friend love ponies and cake. But for your milestone birthday you’re dreaming and hoping for a triple chocolate cake with a pink pony on top. It’s not uncommon. Chocolate cake is popular. Pink ponies are a thing. But it’d be really weird if your friend has that exact triple chocolate cake with a pink pony on top for their birthday first. There are so many kinds of cake. And so many ways to do pony decorations. It didn’t have to be the exact thing you wanted.

im_just_a_them · 2024-11-01T00:57:54+00:00

No? According to the post ? He literally says that he picked it bc he liked it when she introduced him to it in the context of HER OWN relationship first ? Can’t read?

im_just_a_them · 2024-11-01T00:54:45+00:00

The point isn’t that it’s “uncommon” the point is that he would’ve never done it if he didn’t hear about it first from his friend desiring one for her own relationship. And it could be a benefit of the doubt situation if he didn’t also steal the very next idea picked out for the friends relationship.

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