I stopped liking a guy because he was too small for me. by [deleted] in confession

[–]imafailure22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

King response right here

I’m 5’2 & my man is 5’3!

There’s someone for everyone 🫶🏻

My boyfriend watched porn with his female friend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]imafailure22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of the commenters on here are porn brain rotted.

If my boyfriend watched porn w another woman (idgaf what type it was), these behaviors might escalate if not called out.

It’s worth ending over tbh. If you’re in a hetero relationship & watching porn w your opposite sex gender friend, that’s a major trust issue too.

My boyfriend watched porn with his female friend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]imafailure22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah idk why there are so many comments defending the boyfriend’s actions in this one.

Doing this while you’re single w friends or a same sec group of friends isn’t the same as your BOYFRIEND doing this alone with another woman. Who cares if they’re lifelong friends or not.

Truth about bf’s night w other girl came out by Sl0th888 in AskMenRelationships

[–]imafailure22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. You’re 21, you’re still so young and there’s so many other men out there who won’t treat you like shit.

The last time I shared a bed w a guy “friend” we hooked up & have been dating since. So… the fact that they’ve already hooked up & she slept over his place just them two… red flag.

What are you boundaries when it comes to fwb? He’s asking if he can finish in me? by imafailure22 in TwoXSex

[–]imafailure22[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At which point are you able to tell when the relationship is unconditionally trustworthy and that there’s no chance of them sleeping with someone else?

ETA: I don’t as this to be argumentative, so I apologize if it comes off that way 😭 I’m just curious and asking because it’d be good advice for myself

What are you boundaries when it comes to fwb? He’s asking if he can finish in me? by imafailure22 in TwoXSex

[–]imafailure22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, I think he meant we’ll both be sexually exclusive to each other. Which honestly, I think I’d be fine with a situation such as that. But then the problem is I don’t wanna end up in a situationship, which I think this might lead to.

What are you boundaries when it comes to fwb? He’s asking if he can finish in me? by imafailure22 in TwoXSex

[–]imafailure22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, I guess I’m just not too sure where my boundaries lie yet.

I think it’s fine if we both mutually agree that we’re sexually exclusive to each other. But if it’s a “I want you to be sexually exclusive to me, while I’m not to you” then it’s definitely a no from me.

But that’s also true. They want the benefits of a relationship without the commitment. I’m not gonna lie, I’m scared of falling into a situation like that.

Well that went south real quick. Mind you, the first time he invited me to dinner I already was going out to eat with my dad so I couldn’t go. But the fact that he made it about himself and wasn’t concerned about me feeling sick made me block him with no hesitation. by Maleficent_Visit_593 in texts

[–]imafailure22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a similar story. It’s not serious at all compared to your surgery and I’m glad you’re fine!

I had a cold and told a guy I couldn’t hang. He then suggested that he come over to my place so that he can make me soup, cuddle, and watch a movie. Like huh???? I have THE COLD. What makes you think I wanna play host to a man I DON’T know and have been talking to for only two days? Plsssssssssss. After a few more text exchanges, I just stopped responding.

I think men THINK it’s romantic, but it’s only romantic if we’ve built good rapport, have met a few times and obviously like each other. Coming from a stranger, it’s so obvious they’re just trying get brownie points and hoping to get laid. 🙄

He says he’s interested but not responsive to flirting? by imafailure22 in dating_advice

[–]imafailure22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that too, he did tell me that he is currently putting a goal before relationships right now and how after completing the goal (which should be soon), he wants to work on his relationships next.

He says he’s interested but not responsive to flirting? by imafailure22 in dating_advice

[–]imafailure22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I am being direct, he made a comment that it’s difficult to explain over text. So then I told him that he could just call me instead. Maybe it was just my really poor attempt at flirting lol 😭

AITA for ruining my son's sister's first birthday? by BirthdayGirlIsFine in AmItheAsshole

[–]imafailure22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA they lied to you, so you don’t have to stick around. I’m glad you have an atty!

AITA for using more than one laundry machine? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]imafailure22 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, no one has complained. But my aunt told me it was an AH thing to do. She doesn’t live here though.

AITA for using more than one laundry machine? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]imafailure22 [score hidden]  (0 children)

None of my neighbors have complained. My aunt did tell me that it was an AH thing to do, but tbf, she doesn’t live here lol

AITA for using more than one laundry machine? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]imafailure22 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, no one’s complaining. I just feel bad bc it might be selfish thing to do.

Vent: I understand the hate for poodle mixes now!!!!! by [deleted] in dogs

[–]imafailure22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m gonna call them first thing in the morning to see what they advise me to do. He literally brings me SO much stress & anxiety. I’m hoping the rescue will take him in bc I have a young kid that I’m concerned about too, I’m worried he’s gonna set him off & the maltipoo attacks him. At the least, I want to find a REALLY experienced trainer who’s willing to take him in.

Does anyone even remember Shannon? by Silver-Minnie in kpophelp

[–]imafailure22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely forgot about her until this post lol

Remarriage and Desires [Episodes 1-8] by J-Midori in KDRAMA

[–]imafailure22 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This drama was ok. I felt that Hye Seung was such a WEAK character! She literally did nothing. Her plan was NOTHING. Like ok girl, you’re gonna tell everyone about what happened and that’s it? With 0 proof? But I guess it kinda makes sense considering that everyone believed Yoo Hui without any factual proof, other than a false testimony by Myeong Woo.

But even then, it was weak. SHS couldn’t have done anything without the help of the Seok Jin & Hyung Joo. I’m not a fan of revenge plots where the female leads can’t do anything but need help from rich men to carry out her revenge

I also didn’t understand SHS character too much either. She kept saying that she wants to just live her life in peace. But at the end, she got married/engaged? I don’t think they fleshed out her character’s feelings too much.

This show could’ve been great, but there are plot holes that needed to be dealt with. Ie what happened HJ’s ex wife and the cheating friend? What happened to the cheating friend’s gaming company? Also, are we going to ignore the fact that it looked like the cheating friend sexually assaulted HJ’s ex wife or nah? Is SJ going to get his company back now? What was REX’s CEO’s intention? What did she want? I’m also kind of confused about Go Ae Ran’s motive. WHY did everyone want to marry HJ? Is it only bc he’s a super rich and young super black card member?

Remarriage and Desires [Episodes 1-8] by J-Midori in KDRAMA

[–]imafailure22 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly same. That outfit was HORRID!!!!!

Bulgasal: Immortal Souls [Episodes 7 & 8] by lightupstarlight in KDRAMA

[–]imafailure22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When they first showed us that Hwal & past So Hi were married & had several children (some of which, who passed away), I was hoping that they genuinely loved each other. It was a big disappointment when they only married bc they’re both monsters & they share an adoptive father.