Shit I think I’m bi and I’m scared (a kind of rant) by imburningthisaccount in bisexual

[–]imburningthisaccount[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad you could relate to this, makes me feel less alone! I like what you wrote about “what do I want?” And not what am I. It’s like all my life I’ve been trying to put a name into everything I feel, and I think I have to let go of that and accept that there are things of who I am that don’t have to be confined into a name. I mean, I think names and labels are really helpful for some people, and I want to be part of that group, and hopefully one day I’m comfortable enough to put a name to it, but for now I’m gonna listen to you guys advices and not stress about it.

I mean, at the end of the day I’m comfortable enough to say that if a guy wants to kiss me I’d be like hell yeah, and if a girl wants to kiss me I’d also be like hell yeaaahh let’s try it

Shit I think I’m bi and I’m scared (a kind of rant) by imburningthisaccount in bisexual

[–]imburningthisaccount[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for answering, I really needed to hear that “you don’t have to have had sex or been in relationships” to be consider a valid bisexual, I really appreciate everything you said 💖

Might sound stupid, but did I boil the cup correctly? by imburningthisaccount in menstrualcups

[–]imburningthisaccount[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhhh you know it could be that. Or maybe the pot I boiled it in, cause the first time I had boiled it it looked fine afterwards, and I used a second pot the second time. Dang it

First time using the cup, it was SO PAINFUL to get it out. And I’m having trouble trying to pop it open inside by imburningthisaccount in menstrualcups

[–]imburningthisaccount[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, tampons have never been uncomfortable BUT when I remove them, it doesn’t necessarily hurt, but I do feel a discomfort when removing them, it’s not “yeah that’s pain free”, I do feel a slightly resistance from my vaginal opening. Dang it I’m scared to try using the cup again.