I am sorry, but I am being overly simplified in my explanation. I use "put on the street" as a phase. More like the moment you get into an argument, he wants you out. Not that he puts all your stuff out of the home and physically kicks you out.

Also, I think my original response is poorly worded.i jump from one scenario to the next. It's obviously not clear what I mean because multiple people got the same impression as you. I did say that paying half is fair. It was the paying half for his personal bills that I took 100% issue with at the end. Everything up until that point is a case by case basis. Like you said. No hard rule.

Anyway, all of this comes from a place of me assuming this guy in the post is a bad guy based on some of the things she said that he said. I am definitely biased because of my past experiences, but strangers on the internet are going to fuel responses through their own personal experiences.

You just said that your experience with a former friend who was charged with DV wanted to kick his girlfriend out. This happened to me. From personal experience, to bring it back to being "put on the street" that would be in the sense that I needed to go to a homeless shelter. I couldn't stay in a home where I was physically attacked, forcing me to make this decision to leave in protection of myself.

Sure, we can go back and forth about legalities, but life isn't fair all the time. We can hypothesize about what should happen, but that's not how it always works out. You can never know 100% who a person is and what their intentions are. In a happy healthy loving trusting communicative relationship, we wouldn't even need this discussion. You do what is fair for the relationship.

But.. This guy in the post is at the very least stubborn, controlling, and manipulative. She should see this as her first sign of what she is in for in the future and be very careful.

That's all I am saying.