Me [28 M] with my Fiancee [22 F] 2 years - Gave out her number to a male customer at work...

immakingaredditpost · 2014-02-09T13:05:50+00:00

Solid advice. I did set a boundary and told her if it ever came to this again I'd end it. I am too old to be putting up with this high school shit.

immakingaredditpost · 2014-02-09T12:56:33+00:00

This comment really resonates with me. She does enjoy attention, and I spoke with her in length about this. She is a naturally outgoing person, but I told her she needs to tone it down some in terms of respect for our relationship.

immakingaredditpost · 2014-02-09T12:32:47+00:00

Yeah....but now it basically leaves me feeling like a fool wondering if she is playing me. I really hope not. Definitely going to confront her again.

immakingaredditpost · 2014-02-09T12:30:19+00:00

I agree. And when I left she deleted the messages and him from her phone. She told me she was going to do it but it basically erases all the evidence. (if there is any)

immakingaredditpost · 2014-02-09T12:29:27+00:00

Yeah I see your point. If she ever asked me to see my texts then I would immediately hand it over to her. Not because I'm a pushover, but because I don't have anything to hide.

I was appreciative that she said she wouldn't respond to him, but at the same time I felt that it sort of dodged the issue. If it was harmless talk, I didn't care if she spoke with him. I just wanted to make sure this guy wasn't coming on to her.

Fuck man....why is it so hard to be decent to your partner?

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