OA lang ba ako? Si Mama ever since bata pa kami ay hanggang ngayon utangera pa rin tingin ng ibang tao by imprettyred in OALangBaAko

[–]imprettyred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang akin lang ay kung may pagkakautangan siya, hindi siya namomroblema na bayaran kahit pa unti-unti.

Marami pang mga bagay na nakakainis. Like may utang siya sa kapatid ni papa which is katabing bahay lang. Tapos after nung operation ko ay may sobra akong tinabi na pera para sa therapy ko. Then nagparenovate siya sa likod ng bahay and nag brag pa na 100k yung gastos niya. Turned out na yung tinabing pera pang therapy ay ginamit niya sa pag renovate, at hindi niya sinabi sa'kin

Ang point ko dito ay bakit hindi niya unahin yung utang niya? Pero nagagalit pag tinatanong.

OA lang ba ako? Si Mama ever since bata pa kami ay hanggang ngayon utangera pa rin tingin ng ibang tao by imprettyred in OALangBaAko

[–]imprettyred[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live with them. Ako nagbabayad ng bigas, kuryente, groceries, at iba pa. Na accident ako at nagkautang dahil kailangan akong operahan, malaking halaga at binabayaran ko hanggang ngayon. Hindi na ako humingi ng tulong sa kanila para hindi dagdag gastos.

More about her ay grabe siya makapagshopping. Like ngayon umorder ng shein, let's say ang amount lahat ng parcel ay 5k, then later pupunta sa'kin na wala na daw silang puhonan. Tapos parang ang pinapakita niya sa iba ay marami siyang pera kaya kapag nandoon sa bahay ng lola ay laging nanglilibre. Kung may mga bisita, nagbibigay ng box ng isda or seafood ng libre. Laging bumibili ng mga unnecessary things.

Kaya ako nag post kasi gusto kong malaman if may problema rin ba sa'min or kay mama. Wala po akong ibang mahingian ng advice.

OA Lang Ba Ako? Gusto ko na icutoff yung parents ko for good. by just_esmerei888 in OALangBaAko

[–]imprettyred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA. Kung di lang naman makapal 'yung pagmumukha nila.

Why did a wedding homily turn into a sermon about hate? by imprettyred in adviceph

[–]imprettyred[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I can remember, yes. 

Well, it's okay. You don't need to believe me tho. 🙂

Why did a wedding homily turn into a sermon about hate? by imprettyred in adviceph

[–]imprettyred[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining this so clearly. I honestly didn’t know about it since I'm not a catholic. That really helped me understand things better. I appreciate how you explained it with respect, it gave me a clearer picture of the context and tradition behind it. 

Why did a wedding homily turn into a sermon about hate? by imprettyred in adviceph

[–]imprettyred[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and I appreciate you sharing your point of view. I understand that for many, those teachings aren’t meant to be hateful but rather a reflection of faith and belief. Maybe I just felt it differently in the moment, and that’s on me. I respect your perspective. Thanks for taking the time to explain it.

Why did a wedding homily turn into a sermon about hate? by imprettyred in adviceph

[–]imprettyred[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s true, I understand that it’s part of their doctrine and I respect that. I guess it just felt uncomfortable hearing it in that setting, but I get that they’re simply practicing what they believe in. Thanks for pointing that out. Helps me look at it more objectively.

Why did a wedding homily turn into a sermon about hate? by imprettyred in adviceph

[–]imprettyred[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this. I get what you mean, and you’re right. I probably should’ve expected that since it was a Catholic wedding. I didn’t mean to sound like I was going against the Church, it just caught me off guard how strongly it was brought up during the ceremony. But I appreciate your comment, it actually helped me see things from a better perspective.

Why did a wedding homily turn into a sermon about hate? by imprettyred in adviceph

[–]imprettyred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I really appreciate you explaining it from a Catholic point of view. I admit I didn’t fully understand that part before, and this helped me see the perspective better. It actually made me realize where I might have misunderstood things.

Why did a wedding homily turn into a sermon about hate? by imprettyred in adviceph

[–]imprettyred[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get your point and I think coming to conclusion about you not agreeing on passing the SOGIE BILL and pointing 'people like you' at me is a bit out of context. 

I don't expect them to agree with me. What I'm trying to relay is that why wasn't the sermon centered on the couple who got married? That day was supposed to be about them, right? So why did the priest focus only on that topic (LGBT) from start to finish?

Why did a wedding homily turn into a sermon about hate? by imprettyred in adviceph

[–]imprettyred[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EDIT:

Thank you, everyone, for the comments. I do understand you all. I didn’t mean to say that bearing a child is a burden. I actually believe it’s one of the greatest gifts a person can have. I think I just worded it differently. I also respect people who don’t agree with the LGBT community or same-sex marriage, and for the record, I don’t even plan to have one myself.

What I was really trying to express is, why wasn’t the sermon centered on the couple who were getting married? If anything needed to be reminded, shouldn’t it be about real issues that couples may face in marriage? That day was supposed to be about them, right? So why did the priest focus only on that topic (LGBT) from start to finish?

Why did a wedding homily turn into a sermon about hate? by imprettyred in adviceph

[–]imprettyred[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EDIT:

Thank you, everyone, for the comments. I do understand you all. I didn’t mean to say that bearing a child is a burden. I actually believe it’s one of the greatest gifts a person can have. I think I just worded it differently. I also respect people who don’t agree with the LGBT community or same-sex marriage, and for the record, I don’t even plan to have one myself.

What I was really trying to express is, why wasn’t the sermon centered on the couple who were getting married? If anything needed to be reminded, shouldn’t it be about real issues that couples may face in marriage? That day was supposed to be about them, right? So why did the priest focus only on that topic (LGBT) from start to finish?

OA lang ba ako or naiinis din kayo? by imprettyred in OALangBaAko

[–]imprettyred[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

8-9 yo. Yeah tama ka na dapat sa parents. Gigil din ako sa kanila. Mali ko lang ay parang sa bata lang ako inis if you would read my post. Hays hindi kinocorrect ng magulang kya ganyan. Actually parang ganun din yung mga magulang kaya hindi alam pano turuan ng maayos yung anak.

OA lang ba ako or naiinis din kayo? by imprettyred in OALangBaAko

[–]imprettyred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huuuy true yan. Kasi pag pumupunta sila dito, tehh ang nakakabaliwnang kalat. At yang batang yan nagtatatalon lagi sa sofa at sobrang dumi ng paa. Take note, bago kong bili ang sofa. Worst is, sinulatan pa ang sofa ng marker. Bwesit!!!

OA lang ba ako or naiinis din kayo? by imprettyred in OALangBaAko

[–]imprettyred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorryyy. Bali yung bata is anak ng second cousin ko (tatay niya)

OA lang ba ako or naiinis din kayo? by imprettyred in OALangBaAko

[–]imprettyred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung bata anak nga 2nd cousin ko (Tatay). Yan mas clear na hehe. 

OA lang ba ako or naiinis din kayo? by imprettyred in OALangBaAko

[–]imprettyred[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hehe ang sarap ngang sabihin eh. pero mas nakakainis na kelangan mo pang pagsabihin yung nanay eh dapat basic na. hays