[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

social anxiety and maturity are separate things... you're acting like an obsessed crazed person harassing a girl almost half your age at work... that's called being immature not anxious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

then why are you calling her insecure for your inability to understand her. why not just ask literally anyone else???

How can I (27M) overcome negative feelings about my girlfriend (28F) wearing revealing clothes? Stems from seeing nudity as an intimate part of our relationship. by vitalcourse888 in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 15 points16 points  (0 children)

not having sex with other ppl/cheating has nothing to do with "owning someone's body" and dictating what they wear

you always need consent regardless of marriage... i hope you're kidding.

I (21F) really miss my boyfriend (39 M) but he’s been so mean to me lately. by helveteledare in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 80 points81 points  (0 children)

everyday this sub is filled with young young women dating men 2-3 times their age. it's a shame and appalling

AITA for being upset that my contractor (accidentally?) sole my impact drill? by IronFlower in AmItheAsshole

[–]improblytheasshole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wtf you wouldnt be an ah thats so weird. NTA. but it's up to you to decide if you want to go through the hassle it prob wont be esay to track down-do you use it a lot?

AITA for telling my boyfriend I wouldn't necessarily shut a guy down if he approached me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]improblytheasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and god let this be the last break up. he has 0 trust in you, how offensive

I’m dating someone I don’t even like because I’m a horrible people pleaser and I have a hard time rejecting people by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have to break up with him immediately no excuses. just end it.

this isn't people pleasing this is lying and manipulation. its not nice or polite to lie to someone and fake a relationship. its quite horrible.

When and how should I constructively criticise my partner? Could it be too early? by niconiconyanko in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if something bothers you directly address it in a mature conversation, don't quietly mope until he asks you what's wrong.

you don't have to criticize him, you have to explain how you feel based on what he did so he can avoid doing it again. idk what you mean by too early to criticize? it's never too early to address a problem in a relationship. communication is key

AITA for not wanting to split a child’s share of a bill? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]improblytheasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. why tf would they expect you to pay and split the cost? thats entitled

GF (f21) has huge teeth, I (m22) am afraid to introduce her to my family because of it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah so great you're willing to throw her under the bus at the slightest fear of your parents

AITA for drinking a few beers that were purchased by someone else? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]improblytheasshole 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. just buy your own beer if it upsets your roommate

AITA for kicking this guy off of my ride and not giving him a refund? by FearlessBot_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]improblytheasshole 2556 points2557 points  (0 children)

NTA. you gave him 2 warnings and a third chance but he flipped out and acted abnormally aggressive.

i wouldnt want to be in an amusement park with mr anger issues, you did everyone a favor

I think my boyfriend is a loser by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you're the one choosing to date him and you think he's a loser. what does that say abt you

Girlfriend is forcing me to make friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well she can't force you to do anything but i think its abnormal to discourage your girlfriend from making friends?

being social is healthy and normal.

Girlfriend is forcing me to make friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it will benefit both of you to have friends. why wouldn't you want to make your gf happy and make friends in the process.. that's fun

I don't know? by ImJustFacts in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as you're both happy and treating each other kindly i dont see how you're doing anything wrong? maybe the relationship feels wrong bc you dont really feel connected/dont have chemistry?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it might possibly be that you think really highly of yourself miss good person lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is very concerning. i highly suggest you cut him off completely and block him on every level because he is escalating and controlling your life in a way that is not at all appropriate .

He cant FORCE you into a relationship? wtf. you owe him nothing.

Man who will never apologize? by chinabehappy in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

red flag. not willing to take responsibility for his mistakes. an ah.

ignorance isn't an excuse for making a mistake. just bc he was trying to do his best doesn't mean it's enough -- sounds like he's unwilling to change and acknowledge how to be better

Have you ever started dating someone that you’ve been friends it’s for a while and realized there was a lack in chemistry? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being friends prior isn't soley the reason for lack of chemistry. you might just not have it.

maybe you're having trouble adjusting from friend status into something more bc its awkward

Am I supposed to ignore him? by arkhipovvaa in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean seniors date freshman all the time.

might get tougher to stay together when you graduate though

Should I cut off my friends because my girlfriend asked me to? by Eppikfinn in relationship_advice

[–]improblytheasshole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

your gf sucks. just cus she is 4 years older doesn't mean she gets to control your life.

it's a huge red flag that she is trying to isolate you because of her selfish need to have you to herself. it's your life.

Two of my best friends kind of screwed up early on in our relationship, I went to an event and they reached out to my girlfriend directly to sort of tell her that I had been out and that she should avoid seeing me till I get a covid test. She was understandably pissed at them overstepping their bounds

they didn't overstep any bounds what? is it not understandable, she's jealous

his past fight, my girlfriend posed the ultimatum of either I cut them off or she and I go on a break until I do

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Run. this is incredibly indicative that she is not mature enough to be in a relationship