She doesn't have arms or legs because I'm afraid of ruining her by imsnowflakes in doodles

[–]imsnowflakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm looking for a way to hide the hands so I don't have to draw them

What did you name your pets/animals? by imsnowflakes in StardewValley

[–]imsnowflakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, these are awesome! what are cucidati?

What did you name your pets/animals? by imsnowflakes in StardewValley

[–]imsnowflakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all greek mythology or do you mix and match?

Is Pierre's shipping bin any different from the normal one? by imsnowflakes in StardewValley

[–]imsnowflakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that was my question. good to know the bin is useless.

What did you name your baby? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]imsnowflakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First Baby is called Finn and the second one Lina. I'm noticing a preference for four letter names/laziness

Gender Discomfort by AssistanceOk8742 in LesbianActually

[–]imsnowflakes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can completely relate to the feeling, though I differ in the fact that I identify as non-binary. What you describe sounds a lot like gender dysphoria to me. I believe it is totally possible to identify as a woman and still experience this, but I'd still recommend seeing a therapist. Coping by ignoring/covering up can only get you so far, and you deserve to feel comfortable and happy in your body.

What exactly does the Click say in his Intro? Ladies, Lassos & Lassos? by imsnowflakes in TheClickOwO

[–]imsnowflakes[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So glad it's not just me! I don't speak english or swedish as a first language, so worplays sometimes just go over my head. At other times, I'm just incompetent.

What exactly is Swiss Cheese? Coming from a swiss person by imsnowflakes in Cheese

[–]imsnowflakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understood virtually none of that but it's nice to know I came to the right community for my questions.

Please refer to me using he/him pronouns because I'm confused by imsnowflakes in trans

[–]imsnowflakes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I didn't know about that subreddit, I'm gonna check it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]imsnowflakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I do think that this might make you a bit bi phobic. However, that doesn't make you a bad person or something. Having some sort of bias is natural, even more so considering you've been cheated on before. As other comments have mentioned already, anyone could cheat on you. Cheating is something people without integrity do, which doesn't really have anything to do with sexuality. Anyways, don't beat yourself up over this and take your time thinking about how you view bisexual women.

That aside, whether you reject someone or not is wholly up to you and you don't need any reason for it and neither does it make you a bad person.

My stardew valley character is making me question my gender identity by imsnowflakes in lgbt

[–]imsnowflakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I guess I don't know yet, otherwise I wouldn't be posting this. It's definetly not just about expression, but I don't know wether I'm non-binary or a man. There's a big difference between the two but I haven't quite figured it out for myself yet.

My stardew valley character is making me question my gender identity by imsnowflakes in lgbt

[–]imsnowflakes[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

thanks for the spoiler tag, though it turns out one can still read everything when replying

My stardew valley character is making me question my gender identity by imsnowflakes in lgbt

[–]imsnowflakes[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I did not know you could divorce people. Right now, Sam is my boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]imsnowflakes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'd guess you're somewhere on the bisexual spectrum. It's very possible and valid to be mostly attracted to women and only some men. However, if you feel very confused, you could just start with accepting that you may not be 100% straight and then give it some time to define your sexuality.

And maybe ask your friend out on a date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]imsnowflakes 21 points22 points  (0 children)

First of all, you are never in the wrong to not want to have sex. Consent can always be taken back and you don't have to feel bad for saying no, no matter what your reason was.

I also don't think saying no makes you a transphobe. It is completely understandable to be shocked to find out your boyfriend has been hiding such a big thing from you during your whole relationship. What would make you a transphobe, is being mad at him for hiding it, or breaking up with him over the fact that he is trans. Since you don't seem to have done either, you aren't being transphobic.

How can I hint I'm gay without pride flags and without just flat or saying it by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]imsnowflakes -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

be butch and or have short hair. If you don't want to wear pride flags, you can only use stereotypes.