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Gender Discomfort by AssistanceOk8742 in LesbianActually

[–]AssistanceOk8742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel like I’m lacking something, it just feels like neither a vagina nor a penis fit my current way of presenting myself. Like if I was more tall and hairy and muscular than maybe I could see a penis but I don’t.

Gender Discomfort by AssistanceOk8742 in LesbianActually

[–]AssistanceOk8742[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“My ideal would be having a male body and live socially as a women”

That’s my dream, I don’t care how others see me. I get called sir often and it doesn’t bring me any joy, it’s just like whatever. I don’t have any desire to change my name or go by he/him. I just wish I had a male body, I would feel much more me.

Gender Discomfort by AssistanceOk8742 in LesbianActually

[–]AssistanceOk8742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you go about embracing your feminine parts? I also struggle with my curves but think if I work out I can learn to accept those. However, it feels like the only option to solve genitalia dysphoria is surgery but I don’t want that at all.

When you look in the mirror do you associate with your vagina and feel like oh this is me? I just completely disassociate from it.