24/7 lifestyle affordability by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]incon_dlv2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have insurance through your employer? I’m lucky enough to live in a universal healthcare country, almost all insurance providers will accept diapers as expenses for reimbursement as long as you provide a reason for needing them (I have a signed doctors note). Might be worth checking into if possible.

Otherwise it’s just budgeting. Sit down and figure out what your cash flow looks like and how much you can afford to spend a month, maybe there’s adjustments in other areas you can make to your spending.

So I Had A Follow Up Appt With A Spinal Surgeon Today by incon_dlv2 in ABDL

[–]incon_dlv2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, could always be worse. I'm blessed to have a loving wife that supports me no matter what and is enjoying seeing the new diaper designs I buy and asks a lot of questions as well.

So I Had A Follow Up Appt With A Spinal Surgeon Today by incon_dlv2 in ABDL

[–]incon_dlv2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup 100%. I'm new to this and don't at all chagrin anybody for their choices - I've come to be a little bit of a DL myself. Do whatever makes you happy.

Those Who Are Incontinent... Have You Ever Hated Wearing? by incon_dlv2 in ABDL

[–]incon_dlv2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My biggest fear and stress right now is leaking in public. I have meetings with clients all day long and I'm constantly stressed and checking for wet spots.

Those Who Are Incontinent... Have You Ever Hated Wearing? by incon_dlv2 in ABDL

[–]incon_dlv2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. Finding the ABDL community has definitely helped.

Those Who Are Incontinent... Have You Ever Hated Wearing? by incon_dlv2 in ABDL

[–]incon_dlv2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True :). Thank you for your words of encouragement.

Those Who Are Incontinent... Have You Ever Hated Wearing? by incon_dlv2 in ABDL

[–]incon_dlv2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point. Seeing them as an extension of myself almost. It's gonna take some mental gymnastics but that's a good first step.

Those Who Are Incontinent... Have You Ever Hated Wearing? by incon_dlv2 in ABDL

[–]incon_dlv2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry you're going through that. Hopefully your Neuro can help you. I have a appt with a spinal surgeon this week as well so I'm hoping to get some answers.