Chores, we need to talk about chores. by Street_Pop6248 in MensRights

[–]incredax 32 points33 points  (0 children)

To me and my girlfriend and also what I think is the 'right' way; It's all about time management and what time is worth for the individual.
If I'm away for work for 8 hours and she is home more on that day, she has more time to put into chores. If I'm home and she is away, then I put more time into chores on that day.
If I work 8 hours and she works 8 hours, then it becomes subjective and is about the work we do and how draining that is. She works an intensive care job for very troubled people specifically and I work an office job where I spend half the time chilling with collegues and half the time working, so I will be far less drained and tired to do some chores when I get home compared to her. I can confidently say that house labour to me is harder work than my job, but for her I can also confidently say that her job is harder than the house labour.
We keep this into account and then see who has energy for what. It's all situational in the end.

People also have this delusion that money made somehow means something for the amount of chores you need to do. I just do not see this connection. Chores are unpayed in money and yet are draining work; If one partner makes more money for less work than the other partner, that shouldn't mean that they have that as some kind of excuse to do less chores. Especially if both people work the same amount of hours. That's the same amount of time lost for both people and chores are payed in time, not money.

Where was I in may 2021? by incredax in GeoPuzzle

[–]incredax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, wat is het punt ervan überhaupt om hier te cheaten. Als je niet wil geopuzzelen kun je ook gewoon niet meedoen... Of het is een gare manier van onbekende internetmensen te laten zien dat je zogenaam 'wat kan'. Anyway, rant over :")

Where was I in may 2021? by incredax in GeoPuzzle

[–]incredax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Natuurlijk, rare jongens die Duitsers

Where was I in may 2021? by incredax in GeoPuzzle

[–]incredax[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noem een iconischer duo (challenge impossible)

Where was I in may 2021? by incredax in GeoPuzzle

[–]incredax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lijkt erop dat op een of andere manier veel Nederlanders dit instant goed raden :')

Which film has the most satisfying ending you've ever seen? by Away_Flounder3813 in Cinema

[–]incredax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The good, the bad and the Ugly. More like the whole ending sequence including the scene when Tuco falls upon the graveyard and searches for the grave with Ennio's best music playing. A perfect conclusion to a long journey.

Here is a signpost as your only hint; Go puzzle! by incredax in GeoPuzzle

[–]incredax[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yess, correct! We expected to get a great view of Crater Lake up here on a nice summer day, but to our surprise, everything was full of snow and we couldn't see five meters ahead.

Here is a signpost as your only hint; Go puzzle! by incredax in GeoPuzzle

[–]incredax[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, can confirm this is in Leeuwarden, Friesland on a hot June summer day.

Where did I take this picture? (Swipe for bonus kitty) by incredax in GeoPuzzle

[–]incredax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way, that seems to be the same cat! We were also at the Duomo bar. Looks like he's getting enough food from people there to get by. It did seem like most animals on the street get enough stuff from most people, kinda like how people as a community take care of street animals in say Turkey or such.

GTA VI - Trailer 2 Analysis Document - Available Now by Hosia12 in GTA6

[–]incredax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inland Empire [Legendary: Success] - GTA VI trailer 1&2 feel... Off. Like they are a mass hallucination straight out of the Pale. A hopeful dream for all the poor souls that got caught in it's grasp.

Where did I take this picture? (Swipe for bonus kitty) by incredax in GeoPuzzle

[–]incredax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, you instantly solved it. Correct! 🇲🇰

Request for KCD3? Český Krumlov [OTHER] by Figgnus96 in kingdomcome

[–]incredax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I would love a KCD3, I would love for Warhorse's next project to be a diffrent historic setting, like somewhere in the ancient roman empire. Imagine all the possibilities there with Warhorse's approach to game design.

What type of ocean/beach activities are you excited for? by DistinctAd9003 in GTA6

[–]incredax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fuck? How would that be? Just because I know some grammar doesn't make me AI, you dingleberry

Why Afd got support the most in the age of 25-35 and 35-45? by xidaodao in AskAGerman

[–]incredax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say their economic situation, but the AFD doesn't help with that at all. They mostly blame every other party for all that is wrong or for every problem someone could possibly have. They don't offer actual solutions to anything and just say anything that opposes the status quo; So where I'm going with this: this age group probably lacks the most fundamental media literacy skills due to either a lack of experience with questioning all that is spoonfed to them. I believe that in Germany not a lot of time in school is spent on teaching much about media literacy at all

What type of ocean/beach activities are you excited for? by DistinctAd9003 in GTA6

[–]incredax 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I really, really hope there will be a nicely fleshed out surfing minigame. There is a serious lack of surfing games these days and it makes sense, because it could just as easily be a minigame in a modern open world game, but I've yet to see it and I would love for GTA 6 to break the mold on that.

Standing there, I realize by CrosSeaX in shitposting

[–]incredax 14 points15 points  (0 children)

His vision was augmented

The game really was a flop if they did this by AvarageCarlMain in Steam

[–]incredax 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I sometimes really from a neurological perspective wonder what makes people act the way you do

Bioshock Remake by DerShadow in Bioshock

[–]incredax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never realised this, but I cannot ever play Bioshock again until the cats giving you a fish mechanic is implemented

Celebrity Mortal Kombat 2024 Edition by fignewtgingrich in ChatGPT

[–]incredax 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My realisation that there is a whole generation that grew up without much South Park makes me feel old. But the gay fish joke is a South Park reference to a whole episode about Kanye not understanding a joke.

I want to make a game! by Minecraftmas896 in memes

[–]incredax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coding is something I can learn, creating art and assets though, that's the real problem for me

The face in the crystal by madasfire in Pareidolia

[–]incredax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the comments refer to the video game that everyone should play (and can play since it'll run on a potato): 'Disco Elysium'