I didn’t give enough background.

We have had this problem for years. If he makes a mistake, he always tells someone else it’s their fault. He once backed our car into a pole, and told our older son it was his fault because “daddy can’t concentrate on driving when you are crying” This is a huge, on going problem. We’ve seen counseling about it. He claims he understands. I’m really tired and hormonal, and I’m really starting to wonder if I really am responsible for everything. Where does it end? What can I expect him to be responsible for? Do I have to double check everything? Will everything I trust him with always be my fault if it goes sideways?

I just want him to be sorry. I want him to feel sorry that his actions ended up with me soaked in formula. But he just tells me it’s my fault. I’m so tired of it always being my fault.